{"id":163,"date":"2006-02-02T08:45:04","date_gmt":"2006-02-02T12:45:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/sweetpea\/2006\/02\/02\/a-thin-line\/"},"modified":"2006-04-28T00:10:17","modified_gmt":"2006-04-28T07:10:17","slug":"a-thin-line","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/sweetpea\/2006\/02\/02\/a-thin-line\/","title":{"rendered":"A Thin Line"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name=\"a524\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My Roomie&#8217;s told me on several occasions that she&#8217;s spent much of her life living with\u00a0people who were apparently just short of\u00a0mentally challenged.\u00a0 The interesting side effect of that is\u00a0that she often treats me like I&#8217;m one of those people (although maybe I am&#8230;).\u00a0 While watching Law &amp; Order SVU several weeks ago, she commented\u00a0that the cops\u00a0can be just as bad as the criminals on this show.\u00a0 She then\u00a0went on to explain this concept:<\/p>\n<p>Roomie:\u00a0\u00a0See,\u00a0it&#8217;s like cops\u00a0are standing on one side and criminals on the other.\u00a0 And there&#8217;s a line separating them, but it&#8217;s\u00a0a thin line\u00a0&#8230; 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