{"id":72,"date":"2005-04-18T10:37:10","date_gmt":"2005-04-18T14:37:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/snarl\/2005\/04\/18\/a-weekend-too-beautiful-for-wordsso-i-t"},"modified":"2005-04-18T10:37:10","modified_gmt":"2005-04-18T14:37:10","slug":"a-weekend-too-beautiful-for-wordsso-i-took-pictures","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/2005\/04\/18\/a-weekend-too-beautiful-for-wordsso-i-took-pictures\/","title":{"rendered":"A Weekend Too Beautiful for Words&#8230;So I Took Pictures!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name='a1948'><\/a><\/p>\n<p><P>&#8230;and then got too lazy to download them so you&#8217;ll just have to trust me on that one.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>But it really ended up being a nice weekend. Friday was the memorial for my friend, Regina. I went into the office in the morning, but most of my day was focused on the memorial preparations. The weather was perfect &#8211; sunny and cool. People started filtering in for the memorial shortly after 1PM and by the time things got started just after 1:30PM, my last head count was fifty-something people. For the most part, the memorial went by without a hitch, although a nearby door buzzer became a bit of a distraction and I thought that some of the speakers spoke for&nbsp;a little too long (but that&#8217;s just me). This memorial was much easier for me emotionally than the informal one that we had at the office just two days after her death. I suppose the element of time makes things easier&#8230;but I still managed to choke up when her brother, Larry, spoke.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>But by the end of the ceremony, I was exhausted. I&#8217;d had a&nbsp;tetanus shot during my physical exam on Wednesday and it made me achy and feverish. I just wanted to sleep. I bailed out on going to dinner with Larry, his wife and Ben and Brad (two more friends), but I did join them for an hour after the service for a croissant.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>Then&nbsp;I did nothing when I got home. Rich came over and we sat on the sofa watching DVD&#8217;s of Strangers With Candy until going to sleep at 9:30 (on a Friday night!!!!)<\/P><br \/>\n<P>I also had a really nice time hanging out with Matt on Saturday. This was probably the most time we&#8217;d spent together since moving out of the condo. We didn&#8217;t really do much of anything but talk, walk and eat&#8230;but it was just so nice, so comforting, so familiar.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>On Sunday, the weather was so nice that Rich and I got together and went to Mount Auburn Cemetery (where I took oodles of pictures) and then on to the Arnold Arboretum (where more pictures were taken). We found a nice spot on some boulders along a babbling brook and just watched the water rushing to nowhere. It was so therapueutic. I can&#8217;t tell you how long we just sat there in silence&#8230;just watching the water. AHHHHH<\/P><br \/>\n<P>And now it&#8217;s Patriot&#8217;s Day in Boston (AKA Boston Marathon Day) and the city is abuzz. Everybody has the day off&#8230;except me (this is the one holiday we don&#8217;t get). But that&#8217;s okay, at least in my office I can avoid the tourists.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>&nbsp;<\/P><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;and then got too lazy to download them so you&#8217;ll just have to trust me on that one. But it really ended up being a nice weekend. Friday was the memorial for my friend, Regina. I went into the office in the morning, but most of my day was focused on the memorial preparations. 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