{"id":447,"date":"2004-09-04T21:27:50","date_gmt":"2004-09-05T01:27:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/snarl\/2004\/09\/04\/from-one-extreme-to-the-otherin-one-eve"},"modified":"2004-09-04T21:27:50","modified_gmt":"2004-09-05T01:27:50","slug":"from-one-extreme-to-the-otherin-one-evening","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/2004\/09\/04\/from-one-extreme-to-the-otherin-one-evening\/","title":{"rendered":"From One Extreme to the Other&#8230;in One Evening"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name='a833'><\/a><\/p>\n<p><P>I met my high school friend, Candy, after work on Friday night. She had driven to Boston from Cape Cod to&nbsp;drop her sister off at Boston&nbsp;College for the fall semester.&nbsp;We met in Chinatown since she was there getting a haircut.&nbsp;She and I&nbsp;walked to a nearby Vietnamese restaurant where I had a yummy pork\/vegetable meal and one of those nifty little jelly ball teas (you know, the ones with the tapioca-like black balls that sink to the bottom and that you suck up through a wide straw&nbsp;&#8211; tasty!)<\/P><br \/>\n<P>After dinner we walked back to her car&nbsp;so we could&nbsp;drive to our new condo (she hadn&#8217;t seen it before).&nbsp;Candy asked if I wanted to do the driving since I knew where I was going. I considered doing that&nbsp;until she showed me the car&#8230;a Porsche SUV (I didn&#8217;t even know they made such things)! There&#8217;s no way in hell I was going to drive a brand new Porsche when I don&#8217;t have a car (or insurance) of my own. I mean, one fender bender in that thing and the cost of the repair would have sent me to the poor house. I made her drive.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>Later in the evening my friend, Jason, picked me up to go to the Boston Ramrod. I was decked out in my fetish finest: black leather boots and jeans, topped off with a black DC Eagle t-shirt (courtesy of Chris&#8230;thanks!). Jason even let me wear his leather harness under my shirt (though I ultimately chickened out and didn&#8217;t remove my outer t-shirt).<\/P><br \/>\n<P>We had a great time &#8211; and because of our attire were were allowed into the backroom (which is NOTHING like a San Francisco backroom, I must say). However, one fellow asked if he could kiss both of us (we declined) and a second fellow later asked me to take off my shirt (I declined). But it was flattering none the less.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>I think we may make a habit out of doing this. The night was quite an ego booster for me &#8211; and it fulfilled my voyeuristic tendencies.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>Today (Saturday) was much more low key: I got a haircut and went shopping. I bought two&nbsp;shirts, some socks, a bathing suit and some cotton pants at H&amp;M (strangely, the swimsuit was size large but the pants were a&nbsp;size 30 waist), I also went to Macy&#8217;s and bought a Kenneth Cole shirt, some tank tops and underwear. And with both stores combined, I still only spent a grand total of $80.00!! WOO HOO!<\/P><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I met my high school friend, Candy, after work on Friday night. She had driven to Boston from Cape Cod to&nbsp;drop her sister off at Boston&nbsp;College for the fall semester.&nbsp;We met in Chinatown since she was there getting a haircut.&nbsp;She and I&nbsp;walked to a nearby Vietnamese restaurant where I had a yummy pork\/vegetable meal and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":74,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-447","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/447","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/74"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=447"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/447\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=447"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=447"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=447"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}