{"id":281,"date":"2006-03-15T10:55:49","date_gmt":"2006-03-15T14:55:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/snarl\/2006\/03\/15\/a-missed-opportunity\/"},"modified":"2006-03-15T10:55:49","modified_gmt":"2006-03-15T14:55:49","slug":"a-missed-opportunity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/2006\/03\/15\/a-missed-opportunity\/","title":{"rendered":"A Missed Opportunity?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name='a4288'><\/a><\/p>\n<p><P>A few days I go I&nbsp;arrived at&nbsp;work to find the following email (I&#8217;ve removed the sender&#8217;s name&#8230;.I&#8217;m courteous like that):<\/P><br \/>\n<P><FONT face=\"Courier, Monospace\" size=\"1\">My name is&nbsp;XXXX &#8211; 1 L in section&nbsp;XX (went to Yale for undergrad). I am not sure if we ever met, like at BLSA events or not, but I have a question for you (and feel free to ignore etc if it seems invasive). The thing is, I have a really good friend who met you briefly once a while back and has since then retained an interest in you. He is not a student at HLS but lives Boston\/Cambridge area, awesome guy (cute, sweetheart\/gentleman kind of guy-no sleeze ball or anything like that). Anyhow, he had asked me if I knew you, when I mentioned I did not, he asked if I would mind contacting you on his behalf.<\/FONT><\/P><br \/>\n<P><FONT face=\"Courier, Monospace\" size=\"1\">So, hope you don&#8217;t mind that I did. He just wanted to know if you were like taken, seeing someone etc and to hint that he would be really interested in possibly meeting you again or perhaps having a phone conversation etc if you were not taken and were interested in meeting him.<\/FONT><\/P><br \/>\n<P><FONT face=\"Courier, Monospace\" size=\"1\">Thanks for your time. I hope this email was not too forward or repulsive ( He is just a great guy &#8211; I had to take him up on the request to see if you were seeing someone\/not interested etc).<\/FONT><\/P><br \/>\n<P>How flattered I was to think that I might have a secret admirer! Alas, it was sent to me in error. There is a female student at Harvard with a VERY similar email address as me and this message was intended for her. The fellow in question, despite being &#8220;cute, sweetheart\/gentleman&#8221;, is apparently straight (of course I replied to the sender to find out&nbsp;&#8211; I didn&#8217;t want to be rude) and I will never know whether he was the one for me or not.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>Oh well. Life goes on.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>&nbsp;<\/P><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few days I go I&nbsp;arrived at&nbsp;work to find the following email (I&#8217;ve removed the sender&#8217;s name&#8230;.I&#8217;m courteous like that): My name is&nbsp;XXXX &#8211; 1 L in section&nbsp;XX (went to Yale for undergrad). I am not sure if we ever met, like at BLSA events or not, but I have a question for you (and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":74,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-281","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/281","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/74"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=281"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/281\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=281"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=281"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=281"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}