{"id":2208,"date":"2009-10-29T09:32:10","date_gmt":"2009-10-29T13:32:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/snarl\/?p=2208"},"modified":"2009-10-29T09:36:56","modified_gmt":"2009-10-29T13:36:56","slug":"one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/2009\/10\/29\/one\/","title":{"rendered":"One"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;is the loneliest number that you&#8217;ll ever do.<\/p>\n<p>So Randy left yesterday for his business trip to Portland. As always happens when he travels, the first night is the\u00a0easiest for not missing him. It&#8217;s kinda&#8217; nice having the place to myself, watching what I want on TV,\u00a0etc&#8230;\u00a0And I\u00a0notice that I can wake up in the morning with the sheets still tucked in around me and barely have to do anything to make the bed (when Randy&#8217;s there the sheets get pulled up and wrapped around all over the place). But I also find that the first night is usually the one where I have trouble at least\u00a0initially falling asleep (the creepiness of being alone, etc..).<\/p>\n<p>By the second night, I realize that I&#8217;m starting to miss him. Conversely, I tend to start sleeping better the longer and longer he&#8217;s away (the creepiness gradually disappears and I get used to being alone at night). It was like that when I moved into an apartment alone for the first time&#8230;the first few nights I had trouble, but in time I got used to it.<\/p>\n<p>Still, I&#8217;d rather him be around. He&#8217;s still gone tonight, but returns tomorrow afternoon. I suppose I should get used to this because he&#8217;s doing quite a bit of travel over the next month (13 days in Asia, then 5 days in Virginia&#8230;all within the month of November).<\/p>\n<p>At least making the bed will be easier.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;is the loneliest number that you&#8217;ll ever do. So Randy left yesterday for his business trip to Portland. As always happens when he travels, the first night is the\u00a0easiest for not missing him. It&#8217;s kinda&#8217; nice having the place to myself, watching what I want on TV,\u00a0etc&#8230;\u00a0And I\u00a0notice that I can wake up in the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":74,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2208","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2208","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/74"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2208"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2208\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2211,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2208\/revisions\/2211"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2208"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2208"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2208"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}