{"id":1994,"date":"2009-03-27T09:44:58","date_gmt":"2009-03-27T13:44:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/snarl\/2009\/03\/27\/she-doesnt-solve-everything\/"},"modified":"2009-03-27T09:44:58","modified_gmt":"2009-03-27T13:44:58","slug":"she-doesnt-solve-everything","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/2009\/03\/27\/she-doesnt-solve-everything\/","title":{"rendered":"She Doesn&#8217;t Solve Everything"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>About a year ago Randy and I started using a maid. Despite the fact that Randy&#8217;s job no longer had him traveling and despite the fact that my job gets me home at a reasonable hour each day, we still weren&#8217;t managing to clean the place as regularly as we should. And when it came time to clean, the place was pretty bad because we&#8217;d put it off for so long.<\/p>\n<p>Now Marcia comes once every two weeks and does a kick-ass job. The dust bunnies are gone, the crumbs in the toaster are gone, the stove top sparkles, and I can enjoy my workday evenings of DVR catch-up\u00a0and porn.<\/p>\n<p>But now it seems Randy and I have found a new thing with which to procrastinate: laundry. Normally I seem to do the laundry (I&#8217;m not sure how that came about, but such is life). About a week and a half ago, though, Randy through in a couple of loads. The bulk of that laundry (until last night) remained either hanging to dry in the basement or in the dryer.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t really notice it until the middle of this week when I couldn&#8217;t find any socks.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s gotten so bad that, for example, I was doing laundry last night (two loads) and there was still stuff remaining. So later in the evening Randy decided to put another load into the washer&#8230;.and we decided to just leave it there until morning (mildew be damned) because I was already in bed and Randy didn&#8217;t feel like going down to do it.<\/p>\n<p>Why? Why are we so lazy? I mean, we no longer have to worry about cleaning the house. We had very simple meals last night that didn&#8217;t warrant much cooking time or\u00a0the cleaning of many dishes. I know chores aren&#8217;t fun&#8230;but come on! Hell, I plan on taking some of the stuff that was washed and bringing it down to my parent&#8217;s this weekend so my mother can iron it (she actually says she enjoys ironing&#8230;and for the record\u00a0the reason for my visit is not to have her iron).<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s so strange because I can be so motivated about other things (trip planning, the house search). Maybe that&#8217;s the problem&#8230;maybe I become so ambitious with other things that it drains me for doing others?<\/p>\n<p>On the plus side, I&#8217;ve done Wii Fit three times this week plus went to the gym once. I guess that&#8217;s something.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>About a year ago Randy and I started using a maid. Despite the fact that Randy&#8217;s job no longer had him traveling and despite the fact that my job gets me home at a reasonable hour each day, we still weren&#8217;t managing to clean the place as regularly as we should. And when it came [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":74,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1994","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1994","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/74"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1994"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1994\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1994"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1994"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/snarl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1994"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}