{"id":30,"date":"2010-11-15T02:02:00","date_gmt":"2010-11-15T02:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/2010\/11\/15\/desperation-cottage\/"},"modified":"2010-11-15T02:02:00","modified_gmt":"2010-11-15T02:02:00","slug":"desperation-cottage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/2010\/11\/15\/desperation-cottage\/","title":{"rendered":"Desperation Cottage"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_lCPM9gvkpxE\/TOBCC1pjjOI\/AAAAAAAABp4\/ONqXAuVVNTU\/s1600\/keylifebalancewu0.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"189\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_lCPM9gvkpxE\/TOBCC1pjjOI\/AAAAAAAABp4\/ONqXAuVVNTU\/s320\/keylifebalancewu0.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">Every day, there are things in our lives that we dismiss as luck or  chance or simply take for granted.&nbsp; Certainly there are times when  events throw us completely off balance or make us feel vulnerable or  afraid.&nbsp; But I think that most of the time we are so involved with our  daily routine to be successful, whether it be with work, errands, chores and the like, that we forget to notice the things around us that make our lives  better.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">The truth is that, no matter what is going on in our lives, there  are no ordinary moments, no minutes or seconds that are meaningless.&nbsp;  And most of all, we will never get back those moments that pass without  recognition.&nbsp; So, that is why it makes sense to look for and  acknowledge the daily gifts that come from the universe.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">In our everyday struggle to define happiness.. a happy future for ourselves, we are missing a basic requisite for our struggle.. to be happy. We fail to notice everyday events in our lives. At first glance these things may seem rather unimportant, but when I think about what life might be like without them, I  appreciate them all the more, and the bigger and more wonderful they  seem to be.&nbsp; And if you think about it, you may agree that the little  things are what either drive us crazy or make us happy.&nbsp; So, the little  things in life really are important, even if they may not seem to be at  the time.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">For me, the best thing about recognizing such moments is that  when I pay attention and open myself up to them, I notice them all the  more and feel like I may even attract more of them my way.&nbsp; The end  result is that I am happier and more content with my life and consider  each day different in its own way. I am happy now&#8230; and I seek&#8230;to be happy in the future.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">Little miracles happen every day.&nbsp; Flowers bloom,  babies are born, the sunshine warms our skin and we get to be a living,  breathing part of the living, breathing universe.&nbsp; I hope you will take the time to recognize the warm, special moments that make  you feel good about yourself and the world around you. It is time for you to come out of the desperation cottage..to seek happiness, and notice that happiness is around us.. here and now!&nbsp; Live the moment!<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">Yours,<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">Abhijith <\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small\"><i>Dated: July 2009,<\/i><i> written to a friend of mine<\/i><\/span>.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every day, there are things in our lives that we dismiss as luck or chance or simply take for granted.&nbsp; Certainly there are times when events throw us completely off balance or make us feel vulnerable or afraid.&nbsp; But I think that most of the time we are so involved with our daily routine to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2341,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2341"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/simplyjith\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}