{"id":1545,"date":"2022-03-12T20:06:01","date_gmt":"2022-03-12T20:06:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/?p=1545"},"modified":"2022-07-10T15:43:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-10T15:43:09","slug":"should-diaries-and-other-private-papers-be-left-to-descendants","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/2022\/03\/12\/should-diaries-and-other-private-papers-be-left-to-descendants\/","title":{"rendered":"Should diaries and other private papers be left to descendants?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We had a conversation recently about a\u00a0<a title=\"Swedish death cleaning\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gentle-Art-Swedish-Death-Cleaning\/dp\/1501173243?crid=1DYUT57CZRSI9&amp;keywords=the+gentle+art+of+swedish+death+cleaning&amp;qid=1645898228&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=The+Gentle+Art+of+Swedish+Death+Cleaning%2Cstripbooks%2C166&amp;sr=1-1&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=in30min-20&amp;linkId=e45b530e0c4e77c29355a590463759c5&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\">book\u00a0on Swedish Death Cleaning<\/a>. It sounds morbid, but it got us talking about the types of papers we want to hand down to the next generation, which might be important to family historians and genealogists of the future. This ties into our family business, which designs and sells <a href=\"https:\/\/easygenie.org\">high-quality genealogy charts<\/a>. for recording ancestry and <a href=\"https:\/\/easygenie.org\/products\/genealogy-stories-kit-30-sheets?_pos=1&amp;_sid=8943f8569&amp;_ss=r\">family stories<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>While we do not advocate saving papers of limited value (business records, financial statements, school reports) what about other types of documents, that\u00a0<em>may<\/em>\u00a0be considered core genealogy, like a diary?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1546 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/files\/2022\/03\/1918-pandemic-diary-sample.png\" alt=\"1918 pandemic diary\" width=\"400\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/files\/2022\/03\/1918-pandemic-diary-sample.png 400w, https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/files\/2022\/03\/1918-pandemic-diary-sample-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/files\/2022\/03\/1918-pandemic-diary-sample-300x300.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Such documents could include\u00a0personal letters, journals, or writings that reveal something of a person&#8217;s life or perspective. We had conflicting ideas about this:<\/p>\n<p>Me:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>What I wouldn&#8217;t give for a copy of my great-grandmother&#8217;s diary!<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Spouse:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>A journal is a very personal place for expressing random, rambling, and sometimes unsettled thoughts. It&#8217;s therapeutic\u00a0&#8211; once you put it\u00a0on paper, it makes you feel better. But I wouldn&#8217;t feel comfortable for people to look at my private thoughts.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>She makes a great point.\u00a0Privacy concerns extend to other types of documents, too.\u00a0Would you want an old letter to an ex, written when you were 20 years old, preserved and shared with descendants? What about an angry letter, or a document detailing painful medical issues?<\/p>\n<p>Famous authors sometimes request the executor to destroy private papers. Franz Kafka, <a href=\"https:\/\/legacycounsellors.com\/unfinished-work-of-famed-playwright-to-be-destroyed\/\">Edward Albee<\/a>, and others had specific instructions governing letters, manuscripts, and other documents.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We had a conversation recently about a\u00a0book\u00a0on Swedish Death Cleaning. It sounds morbid, but it got us talking about the types of papers we want to hand down to the next generation, which might be important to family historians and genealogists of the future. This ties into our family business, which designs and sells high-quality [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3864,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[85172,88,15672],"class_list":["post-1545","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","tag-genealogy","tag-legal","tag-small-business"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1545","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3864"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1545"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1545\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1547,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1545\/revisions\/1547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1545"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1545"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/lamont\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1545"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}