{"id":276,"date":"2008-02-03T12:26:36","date_gmt":"2008-02-03T16:26:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/2008\/02\/03\/some-mottos\/"},"modified":"2008-02-03T12:47:14","modified_gmt":"2008-02-03T16:47:14","slug":"some-mottos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/2008\/02\/03\/some-mottos\/","title":{"rendered":"Some Mottos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\nI&#8217;m loathe to write this post, because I know it&#8217;s going to be short and what I&#8217;m about to write&mdash;and my essential character, therefore&mdash;can easily be misinterpreted. Still, in the last two days people have accidentally uttered things that I think could be motto-worthy. However, one of my implicit mottos, one that I will not formally list, is, &#8220;You shouldn&#8217;t have too many mottos.&#8221; After all, it&#8217;s hard enough to carry around a handful of maxims throughout the day. Many more and I&#8217;d run out of the computational resources necessary to live by my own standards.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nIt is my hope that once I&#8217;ve got these things committed to (metaphorical, digital) paper, I&#8217;ll be able better to organize them, combine them, and generalize them. That&#8217;s right: it&#8217;s time for a spring cleaning of my wintered philosophies.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nSo here they are in chronological order:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li> You can never have too much butter fat.<\/li>\n<li> Treat a person like dirt and he&#8217;ll stick to you like mud.<\/li>\n<li> I am smarter than my genes.<\/li>\n<li> I am more patient than a five year old.<\/li>\n<li> Be the person you want to attract.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\nOn Friday DJ accidentally pointed out that I&#8217;ve ignored the deterministic components of nurture in the old war between nature and nurture. So maybe it&#8217;d be worthwhile to add<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> I can outgrow my environment.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\nAnd this morning my aunt Robin called to discuss her responses to Carol Dweck&#8217;s book on self and motivation theories that <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/2006\/04\/05\/i-need-to-praise-you-like-i-should\/\">I mentioned a long time ago<\/a>. I told her that I find her receptiveness to what Dweck has to say encouraging. Her response could warrant a more permanent place in my daily life:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> It doesn&#8217;t matter what you think if it&#8217;s not working.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\nDo you have any words of wisdom that I should consider introducing to my list? You know I love comments.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m loathe to write this post, because I know it&#8217;s going to be short and what I&#8217;m about to write&mdash;and my essential character, therefore&mdash;can easily be misinterpreted. Still, in the last two days people have accidentally uttered things that I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/2008\/02\/03\/some-mottos\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":102,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[114,199,139,140],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","category-philosophy","category-psychology","category-religion"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/276","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/102"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=276"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/276\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=276"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=276"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/jreyes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=276"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}