{"id":713,"date":"2009-02-07T14:59:50","date_gmt":"2009-02-07T19:59:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/?p=713"},"modified":"2009-02-07T14:59:50","modified_gmt":"2009-02-07T19:59:50","slug":"parenting-the-mark-of-a-civilized-society","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/2009\/02\/07\/parenting-the-mark-of-a-civilized-society\/","title":{"rendered":"Parenting the mark of a civilized society?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have been following Twitter a bit too much lately that my blog has been ignored a little bit.  Then again it doesn&#8217;t take that much effort for me to ignore my blog on &#8216;other reasons&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of Twitter stuff&#8230; I found an interesting &#8216;conversation&#8217; [1] between <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/timoreilly\/status\/1176605547\">Tim OReilly<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/MarkLittlewood\/status\/1176581720\">Mark Littlewood<\/a> on a <a href=\"http:\/\/news.bbc.co.uk\/2\/hi\/uk_news\/education\/7861762.stm\">BBC article summarizing a report<\/a> on how inattentive parents are causing more difficulties for present day children.<\/p>\n<p>While it would be nice to believe that parenting can become the mark of a civilized society, it would be interesting to see some more specifics.   From what I see at the ground level it is not that easy to achieve.  As a parent you only have a limited control of the overall environment a child grows up in.   Some of the suggestions by the report are good though.  Having more &#8216;family-oriented&#8217; spaces is a good thing.  I am not sure about other countries but in the U.S. and Japan it can be non-trivial to find family-oriented spaces in urban environments.  Finding ways to make these available and more accessible to busy parents is overall a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>Some things I could think of off the top of my head that might be nice:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>More restaurants that are suited to family where parents don&#8217;t have to be embarrassed if their children decide to cause a scene<\/li>\n<li>Try to be more understanding of the parent with the kid that is causing a scene at the you name it area (grocery store, department store, etc).   In general kids, cry for a reason (not always the greatest ones).   While jamming a pacifier works as a stopgap.  Better solutions revolve around trying to understand the root cause.  This of course takes time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Footnotes<\/p>\n<p>[1] I guess these are conversations in Twitter parlance but it seems more like drive-by thought blurb and commenting to me.  Either way some of them can be interesting depending on who is talking<\/p>\n<p>References<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/news.bbc.co.uk\/2\/hi\/uk_news\/education\/7861762.stm\">Read the BBC article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have been following Twitter a bit too much lately that my blog has been ignored a little bit. Then again it doesn&#8217;t take that much effort for me to ignore my blog on &#8216;other reasons&#8217;. Speaking of Twitter stuff&#8230; I found an interesting &#8216;conversation&#8217; [1] between Tim OReilly and Mark Littlewood on a BBC [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":703,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[134],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-education"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/703"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/713\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/hoanga\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}