\uff3b\u8fd9\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\u6d45\u663e\u8d28\u6734\uff0c\u8bb2\u4e86\u4e0d\u5c11\u9762\u8bd5\u7684\u5e38\u8bc6\uff0c\u5bf9\u6b63\u5728\u627e\u5de5\u4f5c\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u6765\u8bf4\u6709\u4ef7\u503c\uff0c\u6545\u8f6c\u5e16\u4e8e\u6b64\u3002\uff3d<\/p>\n
by \u80e1\u679c\u5a01<\/p>\n
\u5728\u804c\u573a\u4e0a\u6df7\u4e86\u51e0\u5341\u5e74\uff0c\u4ece\u4e0b\u4e61\u77e5\u9752\u3001\u5de5\u4eba\u3001\u4e2d\u5b66\u6559\u5e08\u3001\u5927\u5b66\u52a9\u6559\u3001\u597d\u83b1\u575e\u767d\u9886\u3001\u6cd5\u5f8b\u52a9\u7406\u5230\u4e0a\u5e02\u516c\u53f8\u7684\u603b\u88c1\u548c\u6cd5\u5f8b\u4e8b\u52a1\u6240\u7684\u5408\u4f19\u4eba\uff0c\u5f53\u5e74\u88ab\u522b\u4eba\u9762\u8bd5\uff0c\u73b0\u5728\u9762\u8bd5\u522b\u4eba\uff0c\u7ec8\u4e8e\u61c2\u5f97\u4e86\u88ab\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u548c\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u53cc\u65b9\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u3002<\/p>\n
\u201c\u4f60\u53ea\u6709\u4e00\u6b21\u673a\u4f1a\u7ed9\u522b\u4eba\u7559\u4e0b\u7b2c\u4e00\u5370\u8c61\uff08You only have one chance to make a first impression)\u201d\uff0c\u8fd9\u53e5\u8bdd\u7cbe\u8f9f\u5730\u6982\u62ec\u4e86\u4e00\u5207\u3002
\n
\n\u5f53 \u4e00\u4e2a\u5927\u5b66\u6bd5\u4e1a\u7684\u5973\u751f\u6765\u9762\u8bd5\u79d8\u4e66\u804c\u4f4d\u65f6\uff0c\u5979\u7ed9\u6211\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u5370\u8c61\u5c31\u662f\u8863\u7740\u3001\u53d1\u578b\u548c\u5316\u5986\u3002\u5982\u679c\u5979\u5728\u9762\u8bd5\u524d\u4e13\u95e8\u53bb\u4fee\u6307\u7532\u7f8e\u5bb9\uff0c\u5176\u7ed3\u679c\u5f88\u53ef\u80fd\u9002\u5f97\u5176\u53cd\u3002\u770b\u7740\u4e00\u53cc\u5341\u6307\u7ea4\u7ea4 \u7684\u624b\uff0c\u7cbe\u5fc3\u4fee\u9970\u7684\u6307\u7532\u4e0a\u6d82\u7740\u9c9c\u8273\u7684\u6307\u7532\u6cb9\uff0c\u6211\u4f1a\u600e\u4e48\u60f3\uff1f\u7b2c\u4e00\u4e2a\u95ee\u9898\u5c31\u662f\uff0c\u957f\u957f\u7684\u6307\u7532\u600e\u4e48\u6253\u5b57\u5462\uff1f\u62db\u4eba\u7684\u5355\u4f4d\u901a\u5e38\u4f1a\u628a\u9762\u8bd5\u6392\u5728\u540c\u4e00\u5929\uff0c\u4e00\u4e2a\u63a5\u4e00\u4e2a\u3002\u51fa\u4e8e\u793c \u8c8c\uff0c\u4e5f\u8bb8\u6211\u4e0d\u4f1a\u53eb\u201c\u4e0b\u4e00\u4e2a\u201d\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u7b2c\u4e00\u5370\u8c61\u5df2\u7ecf\u57fa\u672c\u7838\u4e86\u3002\u9664\u975e\u5728\u63a5\u4e0b\u6765\u7684\u9762\u8bd5\u4e2d\u6709\u4f7f\u4eba\u610f\u60f3\u4e0d\u5230\u7684\u60ca\u4eba\u4e4b\u5904\uff0c\u8fd9\u4f4d\u7f8e\u624b\u5c0f\u59d0\u57fa\u672c\u4e0a\u662f\u88ab\u6dd8\u6c70\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n
\u9762 \u90e8\u7684\u5316\u5986\u548c\u8863\u7740\u4e5f\u540c\u6837\u91cd\u8981\u3002\u5982\u679c\u8d70\u8fdb\u6211\u7684\u529e\u516c\u5ba4\u5e94\u8bd5\u7684\u662f\u4e00\u4f4d\u6d53\u5986\u8273\u62b9\u7684\u9753\u5973\uff0c\u6d82\u776b\u6bdb\u818f\u3001\u753b\u773c\u5708\u3001\u4fee\u7709\u6bdb\uff0c\u518d\u62b9\u4e0a\u4e94\u5f69\u7f24\u7eb7\u4e14\u95ea\u70c1\u7684\u7c89\uff0c\u8272\u5f69\u5938\u5f20\u7684\u53e3\u7ea2\uff0c\u7a7f\u7684 \u662f\u9732\u8110\u88c5\u3001\u77ed\u88d9\u548c\u9ad8\u8ddf\u978b\uff0c\u6211\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u53cd\u5e94\u5c31\u662f\uff1a\u201c\u6211\u8fd9\u513f\u662f\u5728\u8058\u8bf7\u79d8\u4e66\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u9009\u7f8e\u3001\u65f6\u88c5\u79c0\u3002\u201d\u5982\u679c\u8fd9\u4f4d\u9753\u5973\u7684\u53d1\u578b\u53c2\u5dee\u4e0d\u9f50\uff0c\u518d\u67d3\u51e0\u7f15\u91d1\u53d1\uff0c\u90a3\u6211\u5c31\u96be\u514d\u4f1a\u5fcd\u4e0d \u4f4f\u8bf4\u201c\u4e0b\u4e00\u4e2a\u201d\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n
\u53cd\u4e4b\u4e00\u4e2a\u6e05\u7eaf\u7684\u5973\u751f\uff0c\u4e0d\u5316\u5986\u6216\u6de1\u5986\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u8fd8\u5e26\u4e00\u70b9\u4e61\u571f\u6c14\uff0c\u68b3\u7740\u6574\u9f50\u7684\u77ed\u53d1\u6216\u4e00\u4e2a\u5c0f\u5237\u5b50\uff0c\u4f1a\u4f7f\u6211\u89c9\u5f97\u987f\u65f6\u8033\u76ee\u4e00\u65b0\uff0c\u7ed9\u6211 \u7559\u4e0b\u826f\u597d\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u5370\u8c61\u3002\u5728\u63a5\u4e0b\u6765\u7684\u53e3\u8bd5\u4e2d\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u5979\u6027\u683c\u6bd4\u8f83\u7f9e\u602f\u3001\u7d27\u5f20\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u4f1a\u5c3d\u91cf\u8ba9\u5979\u653e\u677e\u53d1\u6325\uff0c\u53ea\u8981\u6ca1\u6709\u4e25\u91cd\u53e3\u5403\u90a3\u6837\u7279\u522b\u7684\u7f3a\u70b9\uff0c\u5979\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u4efd\u5de5\u4f5c\u5c31\u6709\u516b\u5206\u6210 \u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n
\u5982\u679c\u5e94\u8bd5\u8005\u662f\u7537\u7684\uff0c\u7740\u88c5\u6253\u626e\u4e5f\u4f1a\u5f71\u54cd\u9762\u8bd5\u7684\u6210\u8d25\u3002\u7559\u8fc7\u8033\u7684\u957f\u53d1\u3001\u5c0f\u80e1\u5b50\u957f\u9b13\u89d2\u3001\u957f\u6307\u7532\uff0c\u7528\u53d1\u80f6\u4f7f\u5934\u53d1\u6012\u53d1\u51b2\u51a0\uff0c\u67d3\u53d1\uff0c\u7a7f\u82b1\u82b1\u516c\u5b50\u7684\u886c \u8863\u914d\u725b\u4ed4\u88e4\uff0c\u90fd\u4f1a\u7ed9\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u7559\u4e0b\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u5370\u8c61\u3002\u5982\u679c\u518d\u914d\u4e0a\u5355\u4e2a\u7684\u8033\u73af\uff0c\u90a3\u4f60\u4e0a\u6f14\u827a\u5708\u53e6\u5bfb\u9ad8\u5c31\u5427\u3002\u5e74\u8f7b\u7684\u7537\u751f\uff0c\u7a7f\u4e00\u4ef6\u767d\u886c\u8863\uff0c\u914d\u4e00\u6761\u7c73\u8272\u6216\u6df1\u8272\u7684\u88e4\u5b50\uff0c\u526a\u77ed \u53d1\uff0c\u4f1a\u4f7f\u4eba\u89c9\u5f97\u7cbe\u795e\u7115\u53d1\uff0c\u5e74\u8f7b\u6709\u4e3a\uff0c\u54ea\u6015\u6ca1\u6709\u7ecf\u9a8c\uff0c\u6211\u4f1a\u613f\u610f\u5148\u62db\u8058\u540e\u57f9\u517b\u3002\u82e5\u662f\u9762\u8bd5\u8f83\u9ad8\u7684\u767d\u9886\u804c\u4f4d\uff0c\u5219\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u7a7f\u6df1\u8272\u7684\u897f\u88c5\u3001\u767d\u886c\u8863\uff0c\u914d\u4e00\u6761\u7d20\u8272\u7684\u9886\u5e26\u3002<\/p>\n
\u65e0\u8bba\u5728\u4e2d\u56fd\u8fd8\u662f\u56fd\u5916\uff0c\u9762\u8bd5\u7684\u7740\u88c5\u90fd\u540c\u6837\u91cd\u8981\u30021985\u5e74\u6211\u9762\u8bd5\u7b2c\u4e00\u4efd\u5de5\u4f5c\u4e4b\u524d\uff0c\u4e13\u95e8\u4e70\u4e86\u4e00\u672c\u300a\u6210\u529f\u7684\u7740\u88c5\u300b\uff08Dress for Success\uff09\u3002\u6bd5\u4e1a\u65f6\u662f\u590f\u5929\uff0c\u6211\u786c\u662f\u7a7f\u7740\u4e09\u4ef6\u4e00\u5957\u7684\u897f\u88c5\u53bb\u9762\u8bd5\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u60f3\u5230\u5916\u8d44\u4f01\u4e1a\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u4e0d\u59a8\u8bbe\u6cd5\u627e\u4e00\u672c\u770b\u770b\u3002<\/p>\n
\u987a\u4fbf\u63d0\u4e00\u53e5\uff0c\u9762\u8bd5\u524d\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u5c06\u624b\u673a\u5173\u6389\u3002\u5982\u679c\u5728\u9762\u8bd5\u4e2d\u6765\u7535\u8bdd\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u4f60\u544a\u8bc9\u6765\u7535\u8005\u4f60\u5728\u9762\u8bd5\uff0c\u7a0d\u540e\u56de\u7535\uff0c\u4f60\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u4efd\u5de5\u4f5c\u5f88\u53ef\u80fd\u5c31\u7838\u4e86\u3002\u8fd9\u503c\u4e0d\u503c\uff1f\u5373\u4f7f\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u9762\u8bd5\u901a\u8fc7\uff0c\u6211\u6253\u7535\u8bdd\u901a\u77e5\u4f60\u7b2c\u4e8c\u6b21\u9762\u8bd5\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u542c\u5230\u4ece\u7f51\u4e0a\u4e0b\u8f7d\u7684\u90a3\u4e9b\u4e2a\u6027\u9c9c\u660e\u7684\u94c3\u58f0\uff0c\u4f60\u7ed9\u6211\u7559\u4e0b\u826f\u597d\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u5370\u8c61\u4e5f\u5df2\u7ecf\u6253\u4e86\u6298\u6263\u3002<\/p>\n
\u4e5f \u8bb8\u5e74\u8f7b\u4eba\u4f1a\u8bf4\uff0c\u90fd\u523021\u4e16\u7eaa\u4e86\uff0c\u4f60\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4eba\u592a\u4fdd\u5b88\u3002\u5bf9\u6b64\u6211\u4e0d\u4e88\u7f6e\u8bc4\u3002\u6211\u53ea\u60f3\u63d0\u9192\u4e00\u53e5\uff0c\u5750\u5728\u5199\u5b57\u53f0\u540e\u8fb9\u9762\u8bd5\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\u901a\u5e38\u4e0d\u4f1a\u662f\u4f60\u7684\u540c\u9f84\u4eba\uff0c\u4ed6\u8ddf\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5b50\u5973\u90fd\u6709\u4ee3 \u6c9f\uff0c\u4f60\u600e\u80fd\u5ffd\u89c6\u8fd9\u4e00\u70b9\uff1f\u51fa\u56fd\u4e8c\u5341\u591a\u5e74\uff0c\u5728\u56fd\u5916\u89c1\u8fc7\u5f62\u5f62\u8272\u8272\u7684\u5e74\u8f7b\u4eba\uff0c\u6211\u5e76\u4e0d\u6b66\u65ad\u5730\u5e72\u9884\u5e74\u8f7b\u4eba\u7684\u79c1\u751f\u6d3b\u3002\u4e0b\u73ed\u4e4b\u540e\u6216\u5468\u672b\u8ddf\u670b\u53cb\u4eec\u51fa\u53bbK\u6b4c\u6216Party\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef \u4ee5\u6309\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4e2a\u6027\u7a7f\u7740\u6253\u626e\uff0c\u6211\u65e0\u6743\u5e72\u6d89\u3002\u4f46\u5728\u9762\u8bd5\u65f6\uff0c\u51b3\u5b9a\u6743\u4e0d\u5728\u4f60\uff0c\u4f60\u5f97\u5f04\u6e05\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u7684\u5ba1\u7f8e\u89c2\uff0c\u6295\u5176\u6240\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n
\u6c42\u804c\u7684\u4e2a\u4eba\u7b80\u5386\u4e5f\u975e\u5e38\u91cd\u8981\u3002\u5bf9\u4e00\u4e2a \u521a\u8e0f\u4e0a\u793e\u4f1a\u7684\u5e74\u8f7b\u4eba\u6765\u8bf4\uff0c\u7ecf\u5386\u6bd5\u7adf\u6709\u9650\uff0c\u4e8e\u662f\u6709\u4eba\u4f1a\u5c06\u7410\u788e\u7684\u7ecf\u5386\u4e00\u4e00\u7f57\u5217\uff0c\u5305\u62ec\u4e09\u597d\u5b66\u751f\u3001\u5b66\u751f\u5e72\u90e8\uff0c\u518d\u52a0\u4e0a\u201c\u82f1\u8bed\u6d41\u5229\u201d\u7b49\u5f62\u5bb9\u8bcd\uff0c\u786c\u51d1\u4e24\u4e09\u9875\uff0c\u5176\u5b9e\u8fd9\u90fd\u662f \u753b\u86c7\u6dfb\u8db3\u3002\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u901a\u5e38\u8eab\u5c45\u8981\u804c\uff0c\u65f6\u95f4\u975e\u5e38\u5b9d\u8d35\uff0c\u5bf9\u4e00\u4efd\u4e24\u4e09\u9875\u7684\u7b80\u5386\uff0c\u4ed6\u6700\u591a\u626b\u4e24\u4e09\u773c\u800c\u5df2\uff0c\u5f88\u5c11\u4f1a\u7ffb\u5230\u7b2c\u4e8c\u9875\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u7b80\u5386\u5207\u5fcc\u8d85\u8fc7\u4e00\u9875\u3002\u6b64\u5916\u82f1\u8bed\u662f\u5426\u6d41\u5229\uff0c\u9762 \u8bd5\u65f6\u4e24\u53e5\u5bf9\u8bdd\u5c31\u80fd\u6382\u51fa\u4efd\u91cf\uff0c\u65e0\u987b\u81ea\u6211\u8bc4\u4ef7\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u7684\u4e0a\u5927\u5b66\u4e0d\u9519\uff0c\u4f46\u4e0d\u662f\u7b2c\u4e00\u6d41\u7684\u540d\u724c\u5927\u5b66\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e5f\u6ca1\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u65e0\u987b\u8bf4\u660e\u4f60\u7684\u6bcd\u6821\u662f\u201c\u4e00\u672c\u201d\u6216\u201c\u7701\u91cd\u70b9\u201d\u3002\u4ee5\u6211\u7684\u7ecf \u9a8c\uff0c\u6700\u540e\u88ab\u96c7\u7684\u4eba\u5e76\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u662f\u540d\u724c\u5927\u5b66\u7684\u3002\u6211\u89c1\u8fc7\u7684\u7b80\u5386\u65e0\u6570\uff0c\u6709\u4e9b\u4eba\u4e13\u95e8\u5f3a\u8c03\u653f\u6cbb\u9762\u8c8c\u662f\u515a\u5458\u3002\u5bf9\u4e8e\u5916\u8d44\u4f01\u4e1a\u6765\u8bf4\uff0c\u662f\u5426\u515a\u5458\u6beb\u4e0d\u91cd\u8981\uff0c\u4e0d\u4f1a\u52a0\u5206\uff0c\u53ea\u53ef\u80fd\u51cf\u5206\uff0c \u663e\u7136\u8fd8\u662f\u4e0d\u63d0\u4e3a\u597d\uff0c\u9664\u975e\u4f60\u662f\u7533\u8bf7\u4e2d\u56fd\u653f\u5e9c\u90e8\u95e8\u7684\u516c\u52a1\u5458\u804c\u52a1\u3002<\/p>\n
\u9664\u4e86\u5916\u8868\u548c\u7b80\u5386\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u53e3\u8bd5\u90e8\u5206\u65e0\u7591\u662f\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u60f3\u8a00\u4e4b\u6709\u7269\uff0c\u9762\u8bd5\u4e4b\u524d\u5fc5 \u987b\u5148\u505a\u529f\u8bfe\u3002\u82e5\u516c\u53f8\u6709\u7f51\u7ad9\uff0c\u7b2c\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b\u5c31\u662f\u5148\u4e0a\u7f51\u4e86\u89e3\u516c\u53f8\u7684\u60c5\u51b5\uff0c\u8d8a\u8be6\u7ec6\u8d8a\u597d\uff0c\u9762\u8bd5\u65f6\u624d\u80fd\u5fc3\u4e2d\u6709\u8c31\u3002\u5982\u679c\u6ca1\u6709\u7f51\u7ad9\uff0c\u81f3\u5c11\u5f97\u4e86\u89e3\u516c\u53f8\u7ecf\u8425\u7684\u4e1a\u52a1\u8303\u56f4\uff0c\u624d\u80fd\u6709\u9488 \u5bf9\u6027\u5730\u56de\u7b54\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u81f3\u4e8e\u9a74\u5507\u4e0d\u5bf9\u9a6c\u5634\u3002\u5982\u679c\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u7684\u8bdd\uff0c\u6700\u597d\u5148\u627e\u4e00\u4e2a\u6709\u7ecf\u9a8c\u7684\u4e1a\u5185\u4eba\u58eb\uff0c\u505a\u4e00\u6b21\u6a21\u62df\u9762\u8bd5\uff0c\u8fd9\u65e2\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u953b\u70bc\u7684\u673a\u4f1a\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u8ba8\u6559\u7684\u673a\u4f1a\u3002\u5982 \u679c\u627e\u4e0d\u5230\u6709\u7ecf\u9a8c\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u4e0d\u59a8\u4e0e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u540c\u5b66\u3001\u670b\u53cb\u5546\u91cf\u63a2\u8ba8\uff0c\u4e92\u76f8\u5b66\u4e60\u3002\u5373\u4f7f\u6a21\u62df\u9762\u8bd5\u65f6\u63d0\u5230\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u4e0e\u771f\u6b63\u9762\u8bd5\u65f6\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u5b8c\u5168\u4e0d\u540c\uff0c\u4e8b\u5148\u6392\u7ec3\u80fd\u591f\u51cf\u8f7b\u538b\u529b\uff0c\u4f7f\u4f60\u653e \u677e\u3002<\/p>\n
\u9762\u8bd5\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u5fc5\u987b\u4f53\u6001\u7aef\u6b63\uff0c\u76f4\u89c6\u5bf9\u65b9\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u67b6\u4e8c\u90ce\u817f\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u4e1c\u5f20\u897f\u671b\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u505a\u4e0b\u610f\u8bc6\u7684\u5c0f\u52a8\u4f5c\uff0c\u8ba9\u5bf9\u65b9\u89c9\u5f97\u4f60\u53ef\u4fe1\u3001\u81ea\u4fe1\u3002\u56e0\u4e3a\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u7684\u65f6\u95f4 \u5f88\u5b9d\u8d35\uff0c\u5728\u56de\u7b54\u95ee\u9898\u65f6\u5982\u679c\u80fd\u591f\u7b80\u5355\u5730\u4ee5\u201c\u662f\u201d\u6216\u201c\u5426\u201d\uff08Yes or No\uff09\u56de\u7b54\u7684\uff0c\u5c31\u65e0\u987b\u518d\u8be6\u7ec6\u89e3\u91ca\uff0c\u8fd9\u6837\u4e00\u53ef\u8282\u7701\u65f6\u95f4\uff0c\u4e8c\u53ef\u907f\u514d\u8a00\u591a\u5fc5\u5931\u3001\u753b\u86c7\u6dfb\u8db3\u3002\u9762\u8bd5\u524d\u505a\u529f\u8bfe\u51c6\u5907\u65f6\uff0c\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u95ee\u9898\u5e94\u8be5\u8bb0\u5f55\u4e0b\u6765\uff0c\u5f53\u7136\u95ee\u9898\u5fc5\u987b\u6709\u6df1\u5ea6\uff0c\u63d0 \u7b80\u5355\u3001\u5e7c\u7a1a\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u4f1a\u663e\u5f97\u65e0\u77e5\u3002\u4e00\u65e6\u6709\u673a\u4f1a\u5c31\u5e94\u8be5\u63d0\u95ee\uff0c\u8fd9\u6837\u5f80\u5f80\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e89\u53d6\u4e3b\u52a8\uff0c\u5c06\u9762\u8bd5\u5f80\u81ea\u5df1\u5e0c\u671b\u7684\u65b9\u5411\u5f15\u3002<\/p>\n
\u5982\u679c\u662f\u7528\u82f1\u8bed\u9762\u8bd5\uff0c\u800c\u4f60\u82f1\u8bed\u8fd8\u4e0d\u592a\u6d41\u5229\uff0c\u6700\u597d\u5148\u51c6\u5907\u4e00\u4efd\u8179\u7a3f\uff0c\u9762\u8bd5\u524d\u5148\u53cd\u590d\u7ec3\u4e60\uff0c\u505a\u5230\u80fd\u591f\u8131\u53e3\u800c\u51fa\u3002\u5f53\u7136\u8179\u7a3f\u65e0\u9700\u957f\uff0c\u4e00\u4e24\u5206\u949f\u5373\u53ef\u3002\u9762\u8bd5\u65f6\uff0c\u9047\u5230\u9002\u5f53\u7684\u673a\u4f1a\uff0c\u5373\u53ef\u6d41\u5229\u5730\u590d\u8ff0\u9884\u5148\u51c6\u5907\u597d\u7684\u8179\u7a3f\uff0c\u6446\u8131\u88ab\u76d8\u95ee\u7684\u88ab\u52a8\u5c40\u9762\u3002<\/p>\n
\u4e0e \u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u5957\u8fd1\u4e4e\u4e5f\u662f\u975e\u5e38\u6709\u6548\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u3002\u5982\u679c\u78b0\u5de7\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u8ddf\u4f60\u662f\u540c\u4e00\u6240\u5927\u5b66\u6bd5\u4e1a\u7684\u6821\u53cb\uff0c\u4f60\u4eec\u5b66\u7684\u662f\u540c\u4e00\u4e2a\u4e13\u4e1a\uff0c\u6216\u662f\u4f60\u4ece\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u7684\u53e3\u97f3\u4e2d\u542c\u51fa\u4ed6\u4e0e\u4f60\u6216\u4f60\u7684\u7236\u6bcd\u6765\u81ea\u540c \u4e00\u4e2a\u7701\u4efd\u6216\u57ce\u5e02\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u901a\u8fc7\u6821\u53cb\u3001\u540c\u4e61\u7b49\u5173\u7cfb\u7f29\u77ed\u4f60\u4e0e\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u4e4b\u95f4\u7684\u8ddd\u79bb\u3002\u4e0d\u8fc7\u5957\u8fd1\u4e4e\u5fc5\u987b\u6709\u5206\u5bf8\uff0c\u70b9\u5230\u5373\u53ef\u3002\u6821\u53cb\u3001\u540c\u4e61\u56fa\u7136\u6709\u52a9\u4e8e\u8ba4\u540c\uff0c\u6700\u7ec8\u662f\u5426\u8058\u8bf7\u4e3b\u8981 \u8fd8\u662f\u53d6\u51b3\u4e8e\u4f60\u7684\u80fd\u529b\u3002<\/p>\n
\u5982\u679c\u9762\u8bd5\u65f6\u5f97\u5230\u4e00\u5f20\u540d\u7247\uff0c\u56de\u5bb6\u540e\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u53bb\u4e00\u5c01\u7b80\u77ed\u7684\u4fe1\u6216\u7535\u5b50\u90ae\u4ef6\uff0c\u8868\u793a\u611f\u8c22\u3002\u5728\u50e7\u591a\u4e8e\u7ca5\u7684\u60c5\u51b5\u4e0b\uff0c\u80fd\u591a\u4e00\u6b21\u673a\u4f1a\u4f7f\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u5bf9\u4f60\u52a0\u6df1\u5370\u8c61\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u5411\u4f60\u68a6\u60f3\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u66f4\u8fd1\u4e86\u4e00\u6b65\u3002<\/p>\n
\u5728\u5f53\u524d\u7684\u4e2d\u56fd\uff0c\u6709\u4e9b\u79f0\u8c13\u6709\u4e86\u65b0\u7684\u542b\u4e49\uff0c\u5982\u201c\u5c0f\u59d0\u201d\u662f\u4ece\u4e8b\u8272\u60c5\u7684\u5e74\u8f7b\u5973\u6027\u7684\u4ee3\u540d\u8bcd\uff0c\u800c\u201c\u79d8\u4e66\u201d\u5219\u6210\u4e86\u201c\u5c0f\u79d8\u201d\uff0c\u662f\u60c5\u4eba\u7684\u4ee3\u540d\u8bcd\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u4ee5\u5bb9\u8c8c\u6311\u9009\u79d8\u4e66\u7684\u9886\u5bfc\u5927\u6709\u4eba\u5728\uff0c\u9762\u8bd5\u90a3\u6837\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u5f53\u7136\u662f\u8d8a\u6d53\u5986\u3001\u6027\u611f\u8d8a\u597d\u3002\u6211\u5efa\u8bae\u7684\u6de1\u5986\u662f\u998a\u4e3b\u4e49\uff0c\u613f\u610f\u820d\u8eab\u5f53\u201c\u5c0f\u79d8\u201d\u7684\uff0c\u5343\u4e07\u4e0d\u8981\u4e0a\u6211\u7684\u5f53\u3002<\/p>\n
\u4e0a\u9762\u6240\u8c08\u7684\u9762\u8bd5\u5de5\u4f5c\u7684\u8303\u56f4\u4ec5\u9650\u4e8e\u4e3b\u6d41\u793e\u4f1a\u91cc\u7684\u91d1\u878d\u3001\u4f1a\u8ba1\u3001\u6cd5\u5f8b\u3001\u94f6\u884c\u754c\u4ee5\u53ca\u5916\u8d44\u4f01\u4e1a\u7684\u767d\u9886\u804c\u52a1\uff0c\u81f3\u4e8e\u5176\u4ed6\u884c\u4e1a\uff0c\u5982\u6f14\u827a\u5708\u548c\u4f53\u80b2\u754c\u7684\u8c08\u5410\u3001\u65f6\u5c1a\uff0c\u90fd\u975e\u5e38\u8d85\u524d\uff0c\u6211\u8f88\u884c\u5c06\u5c31\u6728\u7684\u8001\u673d\u65e9\u5df2\u843d\u4f0d\uff0c\u6055\u4e0d\u5984\u52a0\u8bc4\u8bba\u3002<\/p>\n
\u25a1 \u8bfb\u8005\u6295\u7a3f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\uff3b\u8fd9\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\u6d45\u663e\u8d28\u6734\uff0c\u8bb2\u4e86\u4e0d\u5c11\u9762\u8bd5\u7684\u5e38\u8bc6\uff0c\u5bf9\u6b63\u5728\u627e\u5de5\u4f5c\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u6765\u8bf4\u6709\u4ef7\u503c\uff0c\u6545\u8f6c\u5e16\u4e8e\u6b64\u3002\uff3d by \u80e1\u679c\u5a01 \u5728\u804c\u573a\u4e0a\u6df7\u4e86\u51e0\u5341\u5e74\uff0c\u4ece\u4e0b\u4e61\u77e5\u9752\u3001\u5de5\u4eba\u3001\u4e2d\u5b66\u6559\u5e08\u3001\u5927\u5b66\u52a9\u6559\u3001\u597d\u83b1\u575e\u767d\u9886\u3001\u6cd5\u5f8b\u52a9\u7406\u5230\u4e0a\u5e02\u516c\u53f8\u7684\u603b\u88c1\u548c\u6cd5\u5f8b\u4e8b\u52a1\u6240\u7684\u5408\u4f19\u4eba\uff0c\u5f53\u5e74\u88ab\u522b\u4eba\u9762\u8bd5\uff0c\u73b0\u5728\u9762\u8bd5\u522b\u4eba\uff0c\u7ec8\u4e8e\u61c2\u5f97\u4e86\u88ab\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u548c\u9762\u8bd5\u8005\u53cc\u65b9\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u3002 \u201c\u4f60\u53ea\u6709\u4e00\u6b21\u673a\u4f1a\u7ed9\u522b\u4eba\u7559\u4e0b\u7b2c\u4e00\u5370\u8c61\uff08You only have one chance to make a first impression)\u201d\uff0c\u8fd9\u53e5\u8bdd\u7cbe\u8f9f\u5730\u6982\u62ec\u4e86\u4e00\u5207\u3002<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":242,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1713,1016],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1185","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-in-chinese","category-1016"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1185","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/242"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1185"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1185\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1207,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1185\/revisions\/1207"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1185"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1185"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/guorui\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1185"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}