{"id":277,"date":"2017-05-31T17:27:24","date_gmt":"2017-06-01T00:27:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.harvard.edu\/fullcircle\/?p=277"},"modified":"2017-06-06T10:56:59","modified_gmt":"2017-06-06T17:56:59","slug":"today-is-my-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/fullcircle\/2017\/05\/31\/today-is-my-birthday\/","title":{"rendered":"Today Is My Birthday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.harvard.edu\/fullcircle\/files\/2017\/05\/AUprint.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-278\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.harvard.edu\/fullcircle\/files\/2017\/05\/AUprint.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"232\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Today is my birthday. Who would have thought that I was scheduled to have sonohysterogram on my birth anniversary. This is a procedure to prepare for the frozen embryo transfer? The purpose is to detect if there&#8217;s any abnormalities since the egg retrieval and hormonal treatment.<\/p>\n<p>I have heard so many scary stories about what people have found during the procedure &#8211; polys , tumors, unknown tissues, etc. I have also been told about how discomfort it could cause.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line is&#8230;I hate vaginal-ultrasound. That thingy is never ever girl&#8217;s best friend. And if you are putting saline and a balloon in it for a scan, that doesn&#8217;t sound like a pleasant experience to me at all.<\/p>\n<p>So I was mentally prepared that something would have gone wrong&#8230;or the Dr might say something like &#8220;hmm, we found something. And we will need to delay your embryo transfer. I am sorry!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I was holding my husband&#8217;s hand so tight as I was so worry that it could be very painful. Even my hubby thought that I would bite him (for stress relief). While my Dr was inserting all sort of &#8216;materials&#8217; to get ready for the scan, I was anxiously waiting for the &#8216;pain&#8217; to happen. I waited and waited&#8230;nothing yet. Then all the sudden, my Dr said &#8220;Ok. Everything looks fine. Your uterus is perfect. Good luck on your transfer!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The scan by itself was less than 10 secs.<\/p>\n<p>WHAT? That&#8217;s it?! I have a perfect uterus?!?! You kidding me?<\/p>\n<p>Disbelief. For days and weeks, I told myself that I ain&#8217;t the lucky one who would have a smooth cycle. I never would have thought to have a &#8216;perfect uterus&#8217;. I sat by the ultrasound machine and kept asking my Dr for any possible signs of imperfection. The answer was still &#8216;No&#8217;. She took off her gloves and left the room.<\/p>\n<p>So&#8230;this is it. I am one step closer to transfer. I have the privilege to continue this path. This is scary, yet surreal.<\/p>\n<p>Today is my birthday. The birthday present I gave to myself is a perfect uterus. \u00a0Unbelievable.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today is my birthday. Who would have thought that I was scheduled to have sonohysterogram on my birth anniversary. This is a procedure to prepare for the frozen embryo transfer? The purpose is to detect if there&#8217;s any abnormalities since the egg retrieval and hormonal treatment. 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