{"id":7356,"date":"2007-02-14T15:31:38","date_gmt":"2007-02-14T20:31:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/2007\/02\/14\/valentine-matchmaking\/"},"modified":"2011-08-05T14:53:52","modified_gmt":"2011-08-05T18:53:52","slug":"valentine-matchmaking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/2007\/02\/14\/valentine-matchmaking\/","title":{"rendered":"valentine matchmaking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"34\" alt=\"heartArrowR\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/files\/2007\/02\/heartArrowR.jpg\" width=\"40\" \/>\u00a0It&#8217;s February 14,\u00a0when almost anyone can be a yenta, and instigate (or insinuate) love or romance virtually anywhere.\u00a0 The <em>New York Times<\/em>\u00a0even has a touching Valentine story about a dad&#8217;s search for the children he&#8217;s never met.\u00a0\u201d<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2007\/02\/14\/us\/14donor.html?ex=1329109200&amp;en=36011121bec29f9e&amp;ei=5090&amp;partner=rssuserland&amp;emc=rss\">Sperm donor father ends his anonymity<\/a>\u201d (NYT, Feb. 14, 2007; see <em><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/shlep\/2007\/02\/14\/valentine-quickies\/\">shlep<\/a><\/em>)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Browsing the brand new editions of two\u00a0fine\u00a0haiku journals &#8212; <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.geocities.com\/bottlerockets_99\/\">Bottle Rockets<\/a><\/em> #16 (Vol. 8, no. 2) and <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hsa-haiku.org\/frogpond.htm\">Frogpond<\/a><\/em> XXX:1 (Feb. 2007) &#8212; I discovered today that many of the poems by <em>f\/k\/a<\/em>&#8216;s Honored <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/guest-poet-archives-subject-index\/\">Guest Poets<\/a> made me think of Valentines past, present and future.\u00a0 Here are my gleanings:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"91\" alt=\"BottleRockets16\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/files\/2007\/02\/BottleRockets16.jpg\" width=\"60\" \/>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>leaves turned to gold &#8212;<br \/>\nhe still know all the words<br \/>\nto that old love song<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>. . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3718\">billie wilson<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; <em>frogpond<\/em> XXX:1<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>that apple?<br \/>\n\u00a0 i&#8217;d of eaten it<br \/>\nall by myself<\/p>\n<p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3710\">Ed Markowski<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; <em>Bottle Rockets<\/em> #16<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Easter morning\u00a0\u00a0 <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"38\" alt=\"embraceGS\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/files\/2007\/02\/embraceGS.jpg\" width=\"25\" \/><br \/>\nthe lawn strewn<br \/>\nwith pastel condoms<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Day of Atonement<br \/>\nthe pink morning glories<br \/>\nopen wide<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>. . . . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3712\">pamela miller ness<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; <em>Bottle Rockets<\/em> #16\u00a0\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>strained tendon<br \/>\nthe physician&#8217;s assistant<br \/>\nmentions my age<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>cheap motel the time of our lives<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3714\">tom painting<\/a> &#8220;strained tendon&#8221; &#8211; <em>Bottle Rockets<\/em> #16\u00a0<br \/>\n&#8220;cheap motel&#8221; &#8211; <em>frogpond<\/em> XXX:1<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"48\" alt=\"firecrackerSmN\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/files\/2007\/02\/firecrackerSmN.jpg\" width=\"40\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>cloudless horizon &#8212;<br \/>\nthe dead end street<br \/>\nhas a big turn around<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Mom&#8217;s voice on the phone &#8212;<br \/>\ntime of the year<br \/>\nfor a surprise frost<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3725\">gary hotham<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<br \/>\n&#8220;cloudless horizon &#8212; <em>Bottle Rockets<\/em> #16\u00a0<br \/>\n&#8220;Mom&#8217;s voice&#8221; &#8211; frogpond XXX:1<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>cloudy water<br \/>\nin the bud vase &#8212;<br \/>\nchildren grown and gone<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3722\">alice frampton<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0 <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"51\" alt=\"HSALogo\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/files\/2007\/02\/HSALogo.gif\" width=\"110\" \/><br \/>\n<em>frogpond<\/em> XXX:1<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>today too,<br \/>\nchestnut flowers litter the path &#8212;<br \/>\nmy wasted words<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>summer sky<br \/>\nmy sketch of a linden leaf<br \/>\nlarger than it really is<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3709\">paul m<\/a>. &#8211; <em>Bottle Rockets<\/em> #16\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>moonrise<br \/>\nthe soft hum<br \/>\nof the dishwasher<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>dandelions<br \/>\nsome gold, some silver<br \/>\nsummer breeze<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>white sun<br \/>\nthe lifeless finch<br \/>\nfits my palm<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"75\" alt=\"BottleRockets16N\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/files\/2007\/02\/BottleRockets16N.jpg\" width=\"50\" \/>\u00a0. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3724\">carolyn hall<\/a>\u00a0 &#8211; <em>Bottle Rockets<\/em> #16\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>old friends talk<br \/>\neach holding<br \/>\ncar keys<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3869\">tom clausen<\/a> &#8211; <em>frogpond<\/em> XXX:1<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bonus Bouquet<\/strong>:\u00a0 <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"34\" alt=\"HeartArrowG\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/shlep\/files\/2007\/02\/HeartArrowG.jpg\" width=\"40\" \/>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Valentine&#8217;s Day<br \/>\na heart stuck back on<br \/>\nlast year&#8217;s card<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>they say when gorse<br \/>\nis not in flower<br \/>\nkissing&#8217;s not in season<br \/>\nand here before the thaw<br \/>\ni find our winter love<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3711\">matt morden<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; &#8220;Valentine&#8217;s Day&#8221; &#8211; <em>Morden Haiku<\/em> (<a href=\"http:\/\/mordenhaikupoetry.blogspot.com\/2007\/02\/valentines-day-heart-stuck-back-on-last.html\">Feb. 14, 2007<\/a>)\u00a0 &#8220;they say when goose&#8221; &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tankasocietyofamerica.com\/Tankadefined.htm\">tanka<\/a> from <em>Morden Haiku<\/em> (<a href=\"http:\/\/mordenhaikupoetry.blogspot.com\/2007\/02\/blog-post_10.html\">Feb 12, 2007<\/a>)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>valentine&#8217;s day<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0 the sensous curves<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 of a snow drift<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"38\" alt=\"embraceGS\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/files\/2007\/02\/embraceGS.jpg\" width=\"25\" \/>. . . . . <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3710\">by ed markowski<\/a>\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Valentine&#8217;s Day<br \/>\nshe reminds me<br \/>\nto fasten my seatbelt\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/newsItems\/edit\/michael\">michael dylan welch<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0 dylan welch<br \/>\nHSA Brady Contest; <em>a glimpse of red<\/em>: RMA 2000<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>he comes to bed<br \/>\ncleanshaven . . .<br \/>\nwinter stars<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>good morning kiss\u00a0\u00a0 <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"48\" alt=\"firecrackerSmN\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/files\/2007\/02\/firecrackerSmN.jpg\" width=\"40\" \/><br \/>\nwing beats<br \/>\nof the hummingbird<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3708\">peggy lyles<\/a> &#8211; &#8220;good morning kiss&#8221; &#8211; <em>to hear the rain<br \/>\n<\/em>&#8220;he comes to bed&#8221; &#8211; <em>Loose Change<\/em> (HSA Mem Anthology 2005)<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>it&#8217;s sealed &#8212;<br \/>\nthe Valentine card<br \/>\nshe never sent<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>. . . . by <em>dagosan<\/em><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>bingo boards empty&#8211;<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 another widow intercepts<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 the old man&#8217;s wink<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Heimliched out of me<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 pink candy heart<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 wordless now<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3720\">Randy Brooks<\/a> from <em>School&#8217;s Out<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"48\" alt=\"firecrackerSmN\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/files\/2007\/02\/firecrackerSmN.jpg\" width=\"40\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>from Mom&#8217;s to Dad&#8217;s<br \/>\nthe clickity-clack<br \/>\nof suitcase wheels<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>. . . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3722\">alice frampton<\/a>\u00a0&#8211;\u00a0<em>New Resonance 3<\/em>: Emerging Voices (2003)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>late night rain &#8212;<br \/>\nhe reads to me from the book<br \/>\nI read to him<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>. . . . . . . . by\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3718\">billie wilson<\/a> <em>Mayfly<\/em> #40 (2005)<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"34\" alt=\"HeartArrowN\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/shlep\/files\/2007\/02\/HeartArrowN.jpg\" width=\"40\" \/>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>letting her<br \/>\nwalk all over me<br \/>\nladybug<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>. . . by <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3869\">Tom Clausen<\/a>\u00a0&#8211; 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