{"id":5062,"date":"2004-10-09T12:01:47","date_gmt":"2004-10-09T16:01:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/formerlyknownas\/2004\/10\/09\/fixing-the-nys-divorce-machin"},"modified":"2011-08-05T14:58:22","modified_gmt":"2011-08-05T18:58:22","slug":"fixing-the-nys-divorce-machine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/2004\/10\/09\/fixing-the-nys-divorce-machine\/","title":{"rendered":"fixing the NYS divorce machine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name='a2463'><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">The <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.courts.state.ny.us\/ip\/matrimonial-commission\/index.shtml\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">Matrimonial Commission<\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"> <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.courts.state.ny.us\/press\/pr2004_10_1.shtml\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">convened<\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"> by NYS Chief Judge Judith S. Kaye is in the news just as I&#8217;m <\/FONT><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">getting ready to drive to my nephew <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.whatsgoinon.net\/Comiccons.htm\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">Blake<\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">&#8216;s wedding.&nbsp; The Commission &#8220;is charged with examining <\/FONT><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">every facet of the divorce process in New York and recommending reforms to correct existing problems.&#8221;&nbsp; <\/FONT><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">There is a public <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.courts.state.ny.us\/ip\/matrimonial-commission\/FinalNotice.pdf\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">hearing<\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"> coming up in Albany in early&nbsp;November and <EM>ethicalEsq<\/EM> might just have to click <\/FONT><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">on the <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.courts.state.ny.us\/ip\/matrimonial-commission\/RegForm.pdf\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">registration form<\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">&nbsp;link and participate.&nbsp; <\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cyber.law.harvard.edu\/blogs\/static\/ethicalesq\/bridegroomover.gif\" alt=\"bridegroom over\" \/>&nbsp; Issues of interest to our &#8220;former&#8221; editor<EM> <\/EM>include: how custody disputes can be resolved in a more child-friendly <\/FONT><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">manner, the role of divorce mediation (in the sole state without true no-fault divorce), and <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/2003\/12\/13#a380\"><FONT color=\"#000000\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\"><FONT size=\"2\">assistance for <EM>pro se<\/EM><\/FONT><\/FONT><\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"> <\/FONT><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">litigants, along with the training and pay for court-appointed counsel.&nbsp; <\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><SPAN><FONT face=\"Arial\"><\/FONT><\/SPAN>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><SPAN><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Arial\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\">waiting room&#8211;<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\">the ex-wife<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\">looks past me<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\">no longer married<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\">only their shadows touch<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\">. . . graduation day<\/FONT><\/DIV><\/DIV><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"1\">by <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/newsItems\/edit\/www.worldhaiku.net\/poetry\/%20eng\/us\/r.beary_files\/r.beary.htm\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#ff0000\" size=\"1\">Roberta Beary<\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"1\">, from <EM><A href='http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/search-handle-url\/index=stripbooks&amp;field-keywords=\"A%20New%20Resonance%202\"\/102-4810311-4254502'><FONT color=\"#000000\">A New Resonance 2: Emerging Voices in English-Language Haiku<\/FONT><\/A><\/EM> <\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT size=\"1\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\">(Red Moon Press, 2001) Credits:&nbsp;&#8220;waiting room&#8221; originally published in <EM>Pocket Change<\/EM><\/FONT>.<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT size=\"1\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">If I don&#8217;t stop blogging and start packing, I&#8217;m gonna have to worry about strained&nbsp;family relations of my own.&nbsp; I hope to stay off the computer for a couple days, but only time will tell.<\/FONT><\/DIV><\/SPAN><\/DIV><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Matrimonial Commission convened by NYS Chief Judge Judith S. 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