{"id":4380,"date":"2006-02-14T13:30:33","date_gmt":"2006-02-14T17:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/formerlyknownas\/2006\/02\/14\/valentine-quickies\/"},"modified":"2011-08-05T14:54:10","modified_gmt":"2011-08-05T18:54:10","slug":"valentine-quickies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/2006\/02\/14\/valentine-quickies\/","title":{"rendered":"valentine quickies"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cyber.law.harvard.edu\/blogs\/static\/ethicalesq\/2heartsV.gif\" alt=\"2HeartsV\" \/><\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><em> Washington Post<\/em> reporter Joe <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-srv\/artsandliving\/source\/features\/2006\/antivalentine\/index.html\">Heim is right<\/a> (see &#8220;Anti-Valentine<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> Play List,&#8221; Feb. 12, 2006) : <\/font><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote><p><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">&#8220;The world is divided into two groups on Valentine&#8217;s Day:<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> Lovers and Others. For the former, life is sweet and the<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> sound of music sweeter. But for the Others, certain songs<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> cut straight to the heart &#8212; to the bone, even.&#8221;<\/font><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> Heim gives a sample of 14 songs, in the categories of Rage, Regret,<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> and Revenge, and gives you the chance to vote on your Anti-Valentine<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> Favorite.<\/font><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">Meanwhile, here are the only Valentine Quickies I&#8217;ve got this year:<\/font><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><font face=\"Arial\"><font size=\"2\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cyber.law.harvard.edu\/blogs\/static\/ethicalesq\/EmmaForrest.gif\" alt=\"emmaForrest\" \/> A <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/2005\/02\/13#a3250\">year ago<\/a>, we spotlighted author <a href=\"http:\/\/www.emmaforrest.com\/\">Emma Forrest<\/a>,<\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\"><font size=\"2\"> after reading her quote:<\/font><font face=\"Arial\"><font size=\"2\"> &#8220;Love is so delicate, you can&#8217;t <\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">afford to<\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> risk it on a fake holiday.&#8221; <\/font><\/font><font size=\"2\"><font face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\">(<\/font><\/font><font size=\"2\"><font face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\">AP\/ <em>Nashua Telegraph<\/em>, <\/font><\/font><font size=\"2\"><font face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\"> &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nashuatelegraph.com\/apps\/pbcs.dll\/article?AID=\/20050220\/BOOKS\/102200035\">British author had no need for Valentine\u2019s Day rubbish<\/a>,&#8221; Feb. 20, 2005; also pub. at CNN.com as &#8220;I don&#8217;t like Valentine&#8217;s Day,&#8221; (Feb. 11, 2005) <\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">  We at fka agree with the <\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">author of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0684865386\/ref=pd_bxgy_text_b\/102-9892500-1392132?%5Fencoding=UTF8\"><em><font color=\"#000000\" face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">namedropper<\/font><\/em><\/a><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">,<\/font><\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> and &#8220;<em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/140005365X\/qid=1108323431\/sr=1-1\/ref=sr_1_1\/104-1569557-1267912?v=glance&amp;s=books\"><font color=\"#000000\">Cherries in the Snow<\/font><\/a><\/em>&#8221; that the<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> romantic gestures that really<\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> count aren&#8217;t those coerced through <\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">commercially-motivated pro<\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">motions.  It&#8217;s the everyday demonstration of <\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">attention, appreciation and respect that has real meaning (sort of like haiku):<\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Heimliched out of me<br \/>\npink candy heart<br \/>\nwordless now<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; by <a href=\"http:\/\/faculty.millikin.edu\/~rbrooks.hum.faculty.mu\/\"><font color=\"#ff0000\" face=\"Arial\" size=\"1\"><strong>Randy Brooks<\/strong><\/font><\/a><font size=\"2\"><font face=\"Arial\"><font size=\"1\"><em> <\/em><em>from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/1878798200\/qid=1105816207\/sr=1-1\/ref=sr_1_1\/104-1569557-1267912?v=glance&amp;s=books\"><font color=\"#000000\">School&#8217;s Out<\/font><\/a><\/em><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cyber.law.harvard.edu\/blogs\/static\/ethicalesq\/2heartsN.gif\" alt=\"2HeartsN\" \/>  Who would have believed (except my brother) that 40<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> years later, I&#8217;d be singing the same lonely-lover&#8217;s lament in the<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> shower that I sang in high school &#8212; the 1962 song &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Everybodys-Got-A-Ya-Ya\/dp\/B000QQ8ERE\">Everybody&#8217;s Got a <\/a><\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Everybodys-Got-A-Ya-Ya\/dp\/B000QQ8ERE\">Ya-Ya<\/a>,&#8221; by<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> the UK&#8217;s (Three) <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B000QKQEOU\/ref=dm_sp_adp\">Viscounts<\/a>.  You can <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Everybodys-Got-A-Ya-Ya\/dp\/B000QQ8ERE\"><font color=\"#000000\" face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">Listen<\/font><\/a><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> to the song, <\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">which<\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> has the chorus:<\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote><p><em>All the kids are couples,<br \/>\nI\u2019m as lonely as can be<br \/>\nEverybody\u2019s got a ya-ya<br \/>\nEverybody but me <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">Well, I have to run out for an EMG.  Maybe I&#8217;ll have some romantic<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> Valentine notions while the electricity is running up and down my arms.<\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> So, you all come back later (I have no dinner plans). <\/font><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">bingo boards empty&#8211;<br \/>\nanother widow intercepts<br \/>\nthe old man&#8217;s wink<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">snap of her bra . . .<br \/>\nthe baby stops crying<br \/>\nto open his mouth<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cyber.law.harvard.edu\/blogs\/static\/ethicalesq\/bingocardN.gif\" alt=\"bingoCardN\" \/> &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; by <a href=\"http:\/\/faculty.millikin.edu\/~rbrooks.hum.faculty.mu\/\"><font color=\"#ff0000\" size=\"1\">Randy Brooks<\/font><\/a><font size=\"1\">, <em>from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/1878798200\/qid=1105816207\/sr=1-1\/ref=sr_1_1\/104-1569557-1267912?v=glance&amp;s=books\"><font color=\"black\">School&#8217;s Out<\/font><\/a><\/em><\/font><font size=\"1\"> (Press Here, 1999)<\/font><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Valentine&#8217;s Day &#8211;<br \/>\nI forget to get<br \/>\nthe garbage out<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;. by <font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><span><span><\/span><\/span><\/font><font><strong><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3869\"><font color=\"#ff0000\" face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"1\"><strong>Tom Clausen<\/strong><\/font><\/a><\/font><\/strong><\/font> &#8211; <em>Upstate Dim Sum<\/em><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">     <span><span><font size=\"1\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">(<\/font><\/font><a href=\"http:\/\/homepage.mac.com\/gnach\/upds%20folder\/upds\/ds10.html\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"1\">2005\/II<\/font><\/a><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"1\">)<\/font><\/span><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cyber.law.harvard.edu\/blogs\/static\/ethicalesq\/tinycheck.gif\" alt=\"tiny check\" \/> Click for more <a href=\"http:\/\/www.millikin.edu\/haiku\/courses\/globalspring2001\/valentinesdaykukai.html\"><font color=\"#000000\" face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">Haiku for Valentine&#8217;s Day<\/font><\/a><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">, from  the<\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><em> Global Haiku Tradition Kukai<\/em> 2 (Millikin University, February 14,<\/font><\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"> 2001); you&#8217;ll find 30 haiku selected by Prof. Randy Brooks..<\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>it&#8217;s sealed &#8212;<br \/>\nthe Valentine card<br \/>\nshe never sent<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.. by <font><span><font><em><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3053\"><font color=\"#000000\" face=\"Arial\" size=\"1\"><strong>dagosan<\/strong><\/font><\/a><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><font size=\"1\">:<\/font> <\/font><\/em><\/font><\/span><\/font><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Washington Post reporter Joe Heim is right (see &#8220;Anti-Valentine Play List,&#8221; Feb. 12, 2006) : &#8220;The world is divided into two groups on Valentine&#8217;s Day: Lovers and Others. For the former, life is sweet and the sound of music sweeter. But for the Others, certain songs cut straight to the heart &#8212; to the bone, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":94,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[555,2926],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4380","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-haiku-or-senryu","category-pre-06-2006"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6kP1R-18E","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4380","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/94"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4380"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4380\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12778,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4380\/revisions\/12778"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4380"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4380"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4380"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}