{"id":3776,"date":"2005-04-23T16:42:42","date_gmt":"2005-04-23T20:42:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/formerlyknownas\/2005\/04\/23\/the-courage-to-speak-to-her\/"},"modified":"2011-08-05T14:57:46","modified_gmt":"2011-08-05T18:57:46","slug":"the-courage-to-speak-to-her","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/2005\/04\/23\/the-courage-to-speak-to-her\/","title":{"rendered":"the courage to speak to her"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name='a3705'><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n<P>&nbsp;<\/P><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">no sign<BR>where two roads meet<BR>iris blooms<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">spring rain<BR>a bruise on my arm<BR>from donating blood<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.theheronsnest.com\/haiku\/04a5708\/thn_0104h3.html#POEM04\"><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT><\/A>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">evening walk<BR>a merry-go-round turning<BR>in the fog<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><\/DIV><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">cherry blossoms<BR>today the courage<BR>to speak to her<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT color=\"#000000\">&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT face=\"Arial\" color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT face=\"Arial\" color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT face=\"Arial\" color=\"#000000\"><A href=\"http:\/\/www.millikin.edu\/haiku\/writerprofiles\/MatthewsOnPaulM.html\"><FONT color=\"#ff0000\" size=\"2\">paul m<\/FONT><\/A><FONT size=\"2\">&nbsp;&nbsp; <FONT face=\"Times New Roman\">from <EM><A href=\"http:\/\/www.theheronsnest.com\/\">the heron&#8217;s nest<\/A> &#8212; a haikai journal&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &#8220;THNLogoG&#8221;<\/EM><\/FONT><\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT color=\"#000000\" size=\"1\">&#8220;<\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.theheronsnest.com\/haiku\/t1742\/thn_0103h3.html#POEM05\"><FONT color=\"#000000\" size=\"1\">no sign<\/FONT><\/A><FONT color=\"#000000\" size=\"1\">&#8221;&nbsp; &#8220;<\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.theheronsnest.com\/haiku\/0201q3571\/thn_issue.h3.html#POEM08\"><FONT color=\"#000000\" size=\"1\">evening walk<\/FONT><\/A><FONT color=\"#000000\" size=\"1\">&#8221;&nbsp; &#8220;<\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.theheronsnest.com\/haiku\/0604a2020\/thn_issue.h5.html#POEM8 \"><FONT color=\"#000000\" size=\"1\">spring rain<\/FONT><\/A><FONT color=\"#000000\"><FONT size=\"1\">&#8221; <\/FONT><FONT size=\"1\">&#8220;<\/FONT><\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.theheronsnest.com\/haiku\/0504k1851\/thn_issue.h1.html#POEM7 \"><FONT color=\"#000000\" size=\"1\">cherry blossoms<\/FONT><\/A><FONT color=\"#000000\" size=\"1\">&#8220;<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT color=\"#000000\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">&#8211; find three more haiku from paul m. in the newest <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/members.cox.net\/jhaison\/correcaminos\/current issue\/V_2_haiku.htm\"><EM><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">Roadrunner<\/FONT><\/EM><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"> (V:2) &#8211;<\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV align=\"left\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT><SPAN>&nbsp;<\/DIV><\/BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\" style=\"MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px\" align=\"left\"><FONT><SPAN><FONT><EM><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">by <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3053\"><STRONG><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">dagosan<\/FONT><\/STRONG><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">:<\/FONT><\/EM><\/FONT><\/SPAN><\/FONT><FONT><SPAN><FONT><SPAN><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><EM><FONT color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT><\/EM><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Arial\" color=\"#000000\"><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT color=\"#000000\"><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\">rainy Saturday&nbsp;&#8212;<\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT color=\"#000000\"><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\">the chirping robin <\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT color=\"#000000\"><FONT face=\"Geneva,Arial,Sans-Serif\" size=\"2\">needs a date, too<\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT color=\"#000000\"><EM>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<FONT size=\"1\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; [April 22, 2005]<\/FONT><\/FONT><\/EM><\/FONT><\/DIV><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/BLOCKQUOTE><\/SPAN><\/FONT><\/SPAN><\/FONT><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\" align=\"left\"><STRONG><EM><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\">potluck<\/FONT><\/EM><\/STRONG><\/DIV><br \/>\n<BLOCKQUOTE><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><br \/>\n<DIV dir=\"ltr\"><FONT color=\"#000000\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\"><EM><FONT size=\"2\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cyber.law.harvard.edu\/blogs\/static\/ethicalesq\/tinycheck.gif\" alt=\"tiny check\" \/><\/FONT><\/EM>&nbsp; <FONT size=\"+0\"><FONT size=\"2\">Thanks to <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.jd2b.com\/2005\/04\/are-law-schools-using-deceptive.html\"><FONT size=\"2\">Marshall Camp at <EM>jd2b<\/EM><\/FONT><\/A><FONT size=\"2\"> for pointing to the <A href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/ethicalesq\/stories\/storyReader$3679\"><EM>f\/k\/a<\/EM> piece<\/A> on <\/FONT><\/FONT><\/FONT><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT size=\"+0\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">law school promotional tactics and standards.<\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"><\/FONT>&nbsp;<\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\"><EM><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cyber.law.harvard.edu\/blogs\/static\/ethicalesq\/tinycheck.gif\" alt=\"tiny check\" \/><\/EM>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.jd2b.com\/2005\/04\/wapo-reviews-new-book-available-here.html\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"2\"><EM>jd2b<\/EM> also<\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"> pointed to a recent <EM>Washington Post<\/EM> <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/articles\/A56217-2005Apr15.html\/?nav=lb\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">Career Track column<\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\"> <\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\"><FONT size=\"2\">that is a must-read <\/FONT><FONT size=\"2\">for college students thinking about going to law <\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT size=\"2\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\">school.&nbsp;&nbsp; In a review of the book <\/FONT><A href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0940675579\/qid=1113940045\/sr=1-1\/ref=sr_1_1\/104-1569557-1267912?v=glance&amp;s=books\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" color=\"#000000\">Should You Really Be a Lawyer?<\/FONT><\/A><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\">, <\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">by D. Schneider and G. Belsky (2004), Mary Ellen Slayter lists some&nbsp;of <\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\"><FONT size=\"2\">the most common traps that applicants fall into as they <\/FONT><FONT size=\"2\">march mindlessly <\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">toward law schools without figuring out their own motivations, adding up <\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\" size=\"2\">the true cost, assessing realistic job options if saddled with large debt, or <\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT size=\"2\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\">seeking out unbiased and experienced opinions about law practice.<\/FONT>&nbsp; <FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\">&#8220;First, <\/FONT><\/FONT><\/DIV><br \/>\n<DIV><FONT size=\"2\"><FONT face=\"Times New Roman,Times,Serif\">Make a Case: Is Law School for You?&#8221; (<EM>Wash. 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