{"id":378,"date":"2005-07-16T19:18:08","date_gmt":"2005-07-16T23:18:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/dbnews\/2005\/07\/16\/family-confessions\/"},"modified":"2005-07-16T19:18:08","modified_gmt":"2005-07-16T23:18:08","slug":"family-confessions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/2005\/07\/16\/family-confessions\/","title":{"rendered":"Family Confessions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name='a5602'><\/a><\/p>\n<table width=\"537\" border=\"0\">\n<tr>\n<td height=\"353\">\n<p align=\"justify\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cyber.law.harvard.edu\/blogs\/static\/dowbrigade\/\nmegamansn.jpg\" width=\"462\" height=\"391\"><\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Last night, the Dowbrigade had the pleasure of dining<br \/>\n          with his two brothers, one of whom is a Vice President and the other<br \/>\n          of whom is a Judge. Also present &#8211; little sister, now an animal breeder<br \/>\n          on the Cape, and our dear old Mom, whose 75th birthday was the cause<br \/>\n          of the reunion.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">We ate at one of those ridiculous upscale Italian<br \/>\n          joints in the heart of the historic North End, where gaudy, oversized<br \/>\n          plates smeared with drips and drabs of&nbsp;salsas and sauces failed<br \/>\n          to make up for the disguised but unmistakable mediocrity of the food<br \/>\n          itself. Nevertheless, we enjoyed ourselves, as it had been a good ten<br \/>\n          years since we had all broken bread together, and who knows when the<br \/>\n          next chance will be.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Among the talk of Supreme Court short lists, hot<br \/>\n          stocks, Red Sox, cross-eyed Corgis and faded childhood squabbles<br \/>\n          &#8211; painful memories, defanged by the intervening years &#8211; we were asked<br \/>\n          about our midlife avocation of Blogging.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">How much time does it take us, we were asked, to<br \/>\n          keep the Dowbrigade News up and running.&nbsp; Well, we explained,<br \/>\n          both the nature and number of postings depends on what else is going<br \/>\n          on, or not, in our so-called real life. When classes are in session,<br \/>\n          and we are teaching a full load, or an overload, we are often lucky<br \/>\n          to have an hour or so a day, usually late at night, after we have<br \/>\n          finished grading papers, preparing labs and fixing web sites. This<br \/>\n          barely suffices to surf a few of our favorite and fruitful fishing<br \/>\n          grounds for a couple of odd or interesting items, add bizarre photos<br \/>\n          representing, if possible, subtle visual puns, brief caustic<br \/>\n          comments and clever alliterative titles.&nbsp;Presto! A Dowbrigade<br \/>\n          posting.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">But during the long inter-sessions (a month or two<br \/>\n          between each of 3 semesters) it is another story altogether. Then,<br \/>\n          we can spend half our waking hours on-line, posting morning, noon and<br \/>\n          night. We do not regret spending the other half of our time cooking,<br \/>\n          eating, playing tennis, making love,  wandering around outside and<br \/>\n          doing other things that the virtual world has yet to successfully duplicate.<br \/>\n          This is when we can write long rants and track down stories, develop<br \/>\n          pieces over time, and participate in the rapier repartee for which<br \/>\n          the Blogosphere is so well known.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">And then, there are those rare but treasured moments<br \/>\n          in which we are truly engaged in Citizen Journalism, either by opportunistically<br \/>\n          being in the right place at the right time, or by planning or invitation,<br \/>\n          when we will become engrossed in one event or experience for days.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Of course, when the Dowbrigade takes his show on<br \/>\n          the road, the nature of the blogging changes completely all over again.<br \/>\n          Postings may become irregular, but long, composed on long flights or<br \/>\n          bus rides on our trusty laptop, or late at night in anonymous hotel<br \/>\n          rooms in remote cities and villages.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">In short, we concluded, blogging has become an intrinsic<br \/>\n          and inseparable facet of our existence, changing with our moods and<br \/>\n          modes, but ever present, and evermore filtering how we see the world<br \/>\n          and how we choose to let the world see us.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Meanwhile, we were mildly surprized that our brother<br \/>\n        the Judge ever read the Blog.&nbsp; We assume our Mom gives him the head&#8217;s<br \/>\n        up, especially when we start weaving old family tales. Our Mom is the<br \/>\n        only one in the family who is a regular reader, and we are quite OK with<br \/>\n        that. In fact, we take some comfort that all of those with and for whom<br \/>\n        we work seem completely unaware of our alternate life as a blogger, as<br \/>\n        are, except for the Thursday Night crew, all of our friends and family.<br \/>\n        Except Mom.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Happy Birthday Ma<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last night, the Dowbrigade had the pleasure of dining with his two brothers, one of whom is a Vice President and the other of whom is a Judge. 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