{"id":2281,"date":"2004-03-29T19:35:02","date_gmt":"2004-03-29T23:35:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/dbnews\/2004\/03\/29\/12-step-program-for-broadband-addictio"},"modified":"2004-03-29T19:35:02","modified_gmt":"2004-03-29T23:35:02","slug":"12-step-program-for-broadband-addiction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/2004\/03\/29\/12-step-program-for-broadband-addiction\/","title":{"rendered":"12-Step Program for Broadband Addiction"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name='a3134'><\/a><\/p>\n<table width=\"537\" border=\"0\">\n<tr>\n<td width=\"537\">\n<p>We can&#8217;t cut the cord. Everything else is cut, cancelled,<br \/>\n        discarded or stored. The cats are gone, to a legal studio in East Cambridge.<br \/>\n        Number two son is gone, finally moved out by the force and finality of<br \/>\n        having no place to crash. He should be landing in Lima shortly. We are<br \/>\n        sitting in an empty apartment, a few forlorn dishes and lamps strewn<br \/>\n        around, walls and cupboards bare, a ringing silence hanging in the air<br \/>\n        without the hum of the heat or the whine of the refrigerator. <\/p>\n<p>      But we can&#8217;t cut the broadband. It is our umbilical to the world. In the<br \/>\n      morning we will have to disconnect the cable modem, winking merrily behind<br \/>\n      the computer, and store the machine itself in a secret, bomb-proof vault.<br \/>\n      It will be the last thing we do before we head for the airport. Hello,<br \/>\n      our name is the Dowbrigade, and we are addicted to the internet.<\/p>\n<p>      Since we first got cable broadband, four year ago when we still lived in<br \/>\n      Cambridge, one of the first neighborhoods to be wired due to the concentration<br \/>\n      of potential addicts, we have not been separated from it for longer than<br \/>\n      a week or two at most. Most trying weeks, at that. Withdrawal is never<br \/>\n      pleasant, although being on the road either ameliorates or exacerbates,<br \/>\n      the cognitive dissonance, which seems to help.<\/p>\n<p>      The illegal wetback movers failed to show, and it looks as though we may<br \/>\n      have to abandon the refrigerator and washer. Too bad, but they are just &quot;things&quot;,<br \/>\n      after all. Much less important than, say, our cats.<\/p>\n<p>      We were thinking about &quot;things&quot; today as we lugged the millionth<br \/>\n      box up two flights of rickety back stairs. Who realizes how many &quot;things&quot; one<br \/>\n      has accumulated until you have to pack them up and move them somewhere<br \/>\n      else? Each object, of the thousands of objects, was once new, admired, examined,<br \/>\n      handled and studied. Many of them may go days or weeks without being used,<br \/>\n      but when the particular situation which inspired its acquisition occurs,<br \/>\n      nothing else will do. We were looking at the blender through the transparent<br \/>\n      packing tape when this occurred to us.<\/p>\n<p>      But things are replaceable, and people,<br \/>\n      pets and experiences are not. And<br \/>\n      dependence on anything is a weakness, be it drugs, power, sex or the internet.<br \/>\n      Of course, we are not planning on cutting ourself off from the net completely.<br \/>\n      Please, lets not get crazy. Rather, we believe we can &quot;cut down&quot;,<br \/>\n      first to 56K, then maybe to cyber cafe connectivity. We may try to hold<br \/>\n      it down to one post a day. Lets see where that takes us.<\/p>\n<p>      As in any great experiment, there will be lessons to be learned and stories<br \/>\n      to be told, and conclusions to be drawn by those who are into that sort<br \/>\n      of thing. Somehow we know that before this is all through we will be way<br \/>\n      out there near the cold calamitous edge at some point. walking the highwire<br \/>\n      without a net, in that strange exciting border zone where one wrong move<br \/>\n      can be fatal and the only place we know where a person NEEDS to be fully<br \/>\n      awake to survive. Hopefully, we&#8217;ll be within reach of an internet-connected<br \/>\n      computer when that happens, and coherent enough to communicate with you guys. Stay tuned&#8230;.<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We can&#8217;t cut the cord. Everything else is cut, cancelled, discarded or stored. The cats are gone, to a legal studio in East Cambridge. Number two son is gone, finally moved out by the force and finality of having no &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/2004\/03\/29\/12-step-program-for-broadband-addiction\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":299,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1443],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2281","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-esl-links"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2281","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/299"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2281"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2281\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2281"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2281"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/dowbrigade\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2281"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}