{"id":63,"date":"2006-05-22T10:08:09","date_gmt":"2006-05-22T14:08:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/curtincall\/2006\/05\/22\/old-friends-laughter-and-tears\/"},"modified":"2006-05-22T10:08:09","modified_gmt":"2006-05-22T14:08:09","slug":"old-friends-laughter-and-tears","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/curtincall\/2006\/05\/22\/old-friends-laughter-and-tears\/","title":{"rendered":"Old friends, laughter and tears"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name='a149'><\/a><\/p>\n<p>On Saturday this weekend, I had breakfast with my dear friend Pam.&nbsp; Pam and I have been friends for nearly 19 years now.&nbsp; We worked together up until about 8 or so years ago.&nbsp; Since, we&#8217;ve been able to stay in contact using the wonderful world of email and we try to get together at least twice a year.<\/p>\n<p>We realized that this time, we&#8217;d let waaaaay too much time pass between visits.&nbsp; As we started to catch up, I was telling her about Uncle Donald&#8217;s passing away last July and as I talked, my eyes began to well up. <\/p>\n<p>After only about 10 minutes, as I was looking past Pam, I was certain that I saw Chuck (another person we used to work with) and sure enough, behind him came his wife, Michelle (she worked with us, too!).&nbsp; We were soooo excited!&nbsp; We both ran right over and Michelle gave me the biggest, bestest hug I&#8217;ve gotten in a long time &#8211; and needless to say, my eyes welled up again!&nbsp; They had their two beautiful children, Samantha and Nicholas with them &#8211; such a sweet family!&nbsp; I&#8217;ve known Michelle for even more years than Pam and I&#8217;m making a promise to myself that we will stay in touch, even though time separated us for a period.<\/p>\n<p>So, back to the Pam\/Mary catching up session.&nbsp; After more random chatter, Pam proceeded to tell me that her little doggie, Onyx, also passed away last July.&nbsp; The poor thing had a mass and there was nothing that could be done for him so they had to put him down.&nbsp; Poor Onyx and poor Pam and Bruce.&nbsp; My eyes welled up.<\/p>\n<p>As we were sitting, there was an elderly couple sitting behind Pam.&nbsp; I saw the gentleman get up from his seat and walk up behind Pam.&nbsp; He took his thumb and finger and made a &#8220;pretend&#8221; gun with it and said &#8220;This is a stick up!&#8221;&nbsp; Well&#8230;. if you could have seen Pam&#8217;s face &#8211; she nearly jumped out of her skin and the poor guy was obviously only joking &#8211; he just wanted to borrow our ketchup.&nbsp; Needless to say, I laughed so hard, my eyes didn&#8217;t only well up &#8211; I was down right crying!!!&nbsp; Since then, (this very moment included), I laugh every time I think of it.&nbsp; You can imagine the looks I get from folks when I&#8217;m all by myself and just start randomly laughing!<\/p>\n<p>It was a great visit and it reminded me of just how lucky I am to have such special people in my life!&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>P.S.&nbsp; Four more working days and I&#8217;m on vacation!&nbsp; Yay!&nbsp; Yay!&nbsp; Yay!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On Saturday this weekend, I had breakfast with my dear friend Pam.&nbsp; Pam and I have been friends for nearly 19 years now.&nbsp; We worked together up until about 8 or so years ago.&nbsp; 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