{"id":4057,"date":"2012-07-24T17:10:15","date_gmt":"2012-07-24T21:10:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/?p=4057"},"modified":"2012-08-23T11:43:19","modified_gmt":"2012-08-23T15:43:19","slug":"guest-blog-some-thoughts-and-feelings-on-house-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/2012\/07\/24\/guest-blog-some-thoughts-and-feelings-on-house-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Guest Blog: Some Thoughts and Feelings on House Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Gabby Malatesta, History Concentrator in Mather House, Class of 2013<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Since sophomore year I have lived in Mather House.\u00a0\u00a0 As a freshman, I was beyond excited about that for a number of reasons: I would have a single, it was on the river, the dining hall and food are awesome, etc.\u00a0 But two years later, it\u2019s safe to say the biggest reasons why I still get excited about Mather have changed quite a bit.\u00a0 While the rooms, common spaces, and dining hall are all great, the people who I see everyday are why I sing its praises to mostly everyone I meet and why I dread the day I have to leave this place.<\/p>\n<p>#1 \u2013 Hey, look at that, it\u2019s Mather!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4059\" title=\"Mather House\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather1-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Mather House\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather1.jpg 498w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Have you ever seen anything more beautiful?\u00a0 Okay, so concrete may be an <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Brutalism\">acquired taste<\/a>, but when I walk into the courtyard after a long day, I can\u2019t help but feel happy.\u00a0 In my opinion, that feeling is exactly what living in a residential House is all about: having a home.\u00a0 In a House, fellow students, tutors, the House Masters, administrators, and dining hall and House staff all are there for you\u2014whether you need a recommendation, personal advice, or even an eye-patch for the coming weekend\u2019s pirate-themed party.<\/p>\n<p>#2 \u2013 The Dining Hall: My Second Room<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4060\" title=\"Mather Dining Hall\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather2-297x300.jpg\" alt=\"Mather Dining Hall\" width=\"297\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather2-297x300.jpg 297w, https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather2.jpg 627w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 297px) 100vw, 297px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Here, I\u2019m in Mather\u2019s dining hall.\u00a0 In a House, the d-hall is a place for eating, studying, socializing, events, and late-night snacking, and it&#8217;s a safe bet at least one or two of those will be going on at any given time.\u00a0 It\u2019s rarely empty, and once 8:30 p.m. rolls around, you\u2019re sure to see a lot of familiar faces at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thecrimson.com\/article\/2000\/11\/9\/a-break-fit-for-harvard-brains\/\">Brain Break<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing is better than a two-hour dinner spent with friends or that feeling of solidarity that comes when you\u2019re at a table full of Matherites writing papers and doing problem sets until midnight.<\/p>\n<p>#3 &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thecrimson.com\/article\/2012\/3\/11\/housing-day-video-2012-sights-sounds\/\">Housing Day<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Charge!\u00a0 Mather House residents flock wildly in the Yard.\u201d\u00a0 That was the Gazette&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/news.harvard.edu\/gazette\/story\/2011\/03\/a-sort-of-homecoming\/\">caption<\/a>.\u00a0 I\u2019m the one with the scarf, and we had just finished \u201cdorm-storming\u201d Matthews.\u00a0 Dorm-storming is when a hoard of upperclassmen run into freshmen rooms early in the morning to greet the &#8216;blocking group&#8217; of freshman assigned to the house where they will live for their sophomore, junior, and senior years.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4061\" title=\"Housing Day!\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather3-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Housing Day!\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather3.jpg 503w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Housing Day can be suspenseful for freshmen, but most upperclassmen consider it the best day of the year, with as crazy a lead-up as the day itself.\u00a0 Most Houses put together a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=a-dt24CmjY0\">Housing Day video<\/a> (check it out below) to show freshmen why their House is so sweet (not to do too much bragging here, but back in the day, Mather gave the world <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=IpXkO1DDdXU\">the first one ever<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/a-dt24CmjY0\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Freshmen will be sure to see House mascots chilling with John Harvard or taking notes in an Ec lecture. For the rest of the day, freshmen wear their new shirts around the Yard and to classes, and then around dinner time the Houses welcome incoming residents with dinner, Masters\u2019 receptions, tours, and social gatherings.<\/p>\n<p>#4 \u2013 HoCo<\/p>\n<p>As I mentioned earlier, I\u2019m pretty active in House Life.\u00a0 Since my sophomore year, I have held a position on Mather\u2019s <a href=\"http:\/\/mather.harvard.edu\/hoco\">House Committee<\/a> (HoCo); first, I was a Publicity Co-Chair and am now currently a Co-Chair.\u00a0 HoCo is responsible for making their House the best place to live for all students, and HoCo hosts many big and small events and acts as the representative for their House to the House and College administration.\u00a0 HoCo makes it possible for Matherites to enjoy such events as Housing Day, Formals, Happy Hours, study breaks, and barbecues ever year.<\/p>\n<p>HoCos are responsible for a Winter and Spring Formal every year, and the Spring Formal is usually the last event of the year.\u00a0 While I\u2019ve had awesome extracurricular experience through my HoCo responsibilities, what I value most is the friendships I have gained.\u00a0 Without HoCo, I would not have seen the sunrise while on a coffee run the morning of Housing Day, have yelled, \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.dp4uc.com\">DP4UC<\/a>,\u201d for two weeks outside of the Science Center, or had hour-long Bananagrams breaks from papers at two in the morning\u2014all with people I am lucky to call friends.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4067\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather41.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4067\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4067\" title=\"Me and most of our HoCo board at our 2011 Spring Formal\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather41-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Me and most of our HoCo board at our 2011 Spring Formal\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather41-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/collegeadmissionsstudentblog\/files\/2012\/07\/mather41.jpg 615w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4067\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Me and most of our HoCo board at our 2011 Spring Formal<\/p><\/div>\n<p>In truth, I never expected to love Mather as much as I do now.\u00a0 In retrospect, I probably should have known.\u00a0 You see, my dad lived in Mather when he was an undergrad, and because of this, I grew up knowing fun facts like the first House Master kept racehorses, or thanks to the skylights and the design of the roof, you could see rainbows on the ceiling of the d-hall after it rained.\u00a0 Mather stayed with him well past Commencement, and I know that it will do the same for me too.\u00a0 I am the person I am today because of the people I have met and the times I\u2019ve had in Mather, and there\u2019s nothing I would change about my House or the family I have found there.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, I\u2019m done talking about all of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/photo.php?fbid=388206334553167&amp;set=t.752173047&amp;type=3&amp;theater\">my Mather feelings<\/a>.\u00a0 I\u2019ll leave you now with a little something from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=oXA6CLTDekw\">Madness<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gabby Malatesta, History Concentrator in Mather House, Class of 2013 Since sophomore year I have lived in Mather House.\u00a0\u00a0 As a freshman, I was beyond excited about that for a number of reasons: I would have a single, it was on the river, the dining hall and food are awesome, etc.\u00a0 But two 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