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<\/a>Schedule of my week... note that I write down EVERYTHING<\/p><\/div>\n
To see two friends frantically pause on the sidewalk, whip out their phones, check their calendars, and rattle off mutual free time slots in which to schedule \u201ccatch-up coffee\u201d or \u201clunch in the dhall\u201d (lingo for dining hall) before rushing off in different directions because said phones have alerted them of their next commitment is maybe one of the most common sites at Harvard.\u00a0 I, for one, have become a pro at what I call the \u201cwalk-and-shout.\u201d \u00a0Here\u2019s how it works: Sally is speed walking in one direction while her friend Joe is speed walking in the opposite direction.\u00a0 In their hurry they look up and recognize each other, but neither having the time to stop, they strike up their shouted conversation 10 feet away.\u00a0 As they get closer, neither\u2019s velocity changes.\u00a0 Instead, once they pass each other, they each turn around and continue their conversation walking backward until neither can hear the other.\u00a0 Such a conversation is usually ended with a \u201clet\u2019s grab lunch!\u201d followed by one or both parties checking their calendars.<\/p>\n
The perk of scheduling \u2013 efficiency.\u00a0 Ever since the doodles of dogs, smilie faces, and hot air balloons in the margins of my notes turned into scrawled hour-by-hour breakdowns of my day, I\u2019ve been able to fit a whole lot more in.\u00a0 And then as I\u2019m falling asleep at the end of the day, I have fewer of those heart stopping \u201cOMG I forgot to do X, Y, and Z!!!\u201d moments, and therefore I sleep better knowing that I haven\u2019t let the day go to waste.<\/p>\n
But is there a moment when scheduled can become over-scheduled?\u00a0 Have days become 1\u201dx 5\u201d rectangles in our calendars rather than portions of our lives?\u00a0 By becoming obsessed with not missing a scheduled moment, are we actually missing out on life?<\/p>\n
The weekend of the Harvard\/ Yale game, I had it all figured out.\u00a0 I was riding down to New Haven on the Theta bus, getting in touch with my friend from prefrosh weekend Larissa, and following her around for the night.\u00a0 The next morning, I was going to wake up and hit the game with a bunch of my Theta sisters before returning with them on the bus.\u00a0 But when a few kinks in the plan emerged (Larissa had an International Relations something-or-other to attend), and I was forced to sort of float\u2026 which led me to running into a super old friend and \u201ccatching-up\u201d\u2014not in the Harvard, frantic sort of way, but in the real, let\u2019s have a meaningful conversation sort of way.\u00a0 And when I ended up going into the Game alone the next afternoon because I\u2019d lost my friends in the crowd, I had the opportunity to sit with a friend and her new boyfriend (who it turns out wasn\u2019t new at all\u2026 I just hadn\u2019t seen her in a long time), and then later sit with some old friends from Pennypacker (my totally amazing freshman dorm).<\/p>\n
It\u2019s interesting how if you were to ask me what I\u2019ve done in the days since Harvard\/ Yale, I would have to refer to my calendar from those days to tell you anything except for the one thing that wasn\u2019t on my calendar \u2013 the Penguins hockey game I was spontaneously able to go to last night.\u00a0 There I was, sitting with my two little brothers and little cousin in the best hockey seats I\u2019ve ever had in my life (right behind the goal), NOT writing the history essay I have due tomorrow at 5 pm, NOT writing this blog entry which is horrendously late, NOT calling the friend I was supposed to get in touch with, and having a fantastic time!<\/p>\n
It was as the final goal in overtime sounded a Pens\u2019 defeat, as I went home that night and allowed myself to watch a few old episodes of Glee before going to bed, as I ate Thanksgiving dinner with my family this afternoon, that I came to appreciate the ability to slow down and not be over-scheduled.<\/p>\n
Breaks are meant to be breaks in our schedules.\u00a0 And yes, while I may have been scheduled to finish this blog post five minutes ago, and I am going to need to write my history paper before tomorrow morning so I can get up and enjoy all of the early-bird Black Friday specials with my sister before noon, and then I have to meet with some high school friends over dinner and a movie, then meet with another friend for breakfast on Saturday so I can get my haircut Saturday afternoon, before going to dinner with my family and spending time with another friend Saturday night, before returning to Harvard on Sunday and starting up with exams\u2026 there is something to be said for taking things as they come.<\/p>\n
Maybe this is something that I can be more mindful of in the coming weeks as we close the semester. \u00a0Happy Thanksgiving everyone!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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