{"id":5,"date":"2005-09-11T15:10:36","date_gmt":"2005-09-11T20:10:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.law.harvard.edu\/astra\/2005\/09\/11\/one-heart-used-for-sale\/"},"modified":"2005-09-11T15:10:36","modified_gmt":"2005-09-11T20:10:36","slug":"one-heart-used-for-sale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.blogs.harvard.edu\/astra\/2005\/09\/11\/one-heart-used-for-sale\/","title":{"rendered":"One heart, used, for sale"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name='a10'><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\nLooking through pages and pages of Craigslist furniture postings this<br \/>\nmorning, I started to wonder about the stories behind the &#8220;for sale&#8221;<br \/>\nads. Why is she selling that brand new queen bed, still in its<br \/>\nplastic wrappings? Why is he in such a hurry to move out of state that<br \/>\nhe&#8217;s selling the futon at that dirt-cheap price? Why are they trying to<br \/>\nsell the car, explaining that they&#8217;d purchased a new minivan? There are<br \/>\nbound to be happy stories &#8211; marriage, a desired relocation,<br \/>\ngraduation, a child on the way, as well as sad stories &#8211; children<br \/>\nmoving away, divorce, breakup, going out of business. <\/p>\n<p>Imagine people<br \/>\nready with warm greetings at the front door, joking with the visitors,<br \/>\nflaunting their joy at their good fortune with an ease that, when<br \/>\nprodded carefully, could translate into a great deal for hungry bargain<br \/>\nhunters. Picture people masking the hurt in their eyes as they watch<br \/>\nstrangers scrutinize their possessions, barter, argue amongst each<br \/>\nother, and finally haul away the objects that may very well be the last<br \/>\nphysical fragments of a shattered dream. So don&#8217;t be so quick to judge<br \/>\nthat gruff old man or snappish young lady who makes you want to stomp<br \/>\naway, muttering, &#8220;I would consider buying it if you weren&#8217;t so damn<br \/>\nrude&#8221; &#8230; who knows what things burden their hearts? <\/p>\n<p>The lyrics of this song, which I stumbled across months ago, are<br \/>\nsophomoric. (I haven&#8217;t listened to the song, I believe it hasn&#8217;t been<br \/>\nreleased.) <br \/>\nBut there&#8217;s one part that painfully resonates:<\/p>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 40px;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">no matter how close<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">no one really knows the fire that grows<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">if i could only show you something real this time<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">in spite of all the emptiness i feel inside<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">&#8217;cause all i ask of you this time<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">is look beyond the things i said that didn&#8217;t shine<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">try to understand the shades of grey<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">all of my mistakes<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">and turn them into colors of a better time<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">it&#8217;s blind sometimes what gets me through the day<\/span>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br \/>\n&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &#8211; Ken Oak, &#8220;Intangible&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana;\"><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Looking through pages and pages of Craigslist furniture postings this morning, I started to wonder about the stories behind the &#8220;for sale&#8221; ads. 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